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AverageOldGuy

(4,284 posts)
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 06:52 PM 9 hrs ago

Thanks for all your support!!!

Short version: Ms. Average Old Guy is back home -- to ER Monday about 10:30 AM, back home around 4:00 this afternoon. Severe UTI and pneumonia with no idea where either of the infections came from.

Long version.

Sunday she was her usual (83 yr old) self . . . moving a little slow, giving Trump the finger, talking with our 19-yr-old mildly autistic grandson about his job prospects, pissing and moaning at me for some stupid shit I did.

Monday morning 9:30, in bed, called me, she was choking on vomit, got her airway cleared, stripped off nasty PJ's, headed for bathroom and she had no idea where she was, who she was, who I was . . . . I'm an old EMT, ran rescue for 14 years in rural VA, got vitals, BP 80/40, O2 86%, cyanotic, respirations 36 and rapid, pulse 102, chest sounds crackles, rales, rhonchi . Called 911.

Monday through Tuesday night 4X daily IV antibiotics, still confused, did not recognize me or our son, daughter, DIL, or grandsons. Responded to most questions with blank stare, slept constantly.

Wednesday morning was different story -- "Why am I in hospital??" Was suddenly her usual lovably grouchy self, improved gradually, stil unsteady on her feet, appetite returning, all she wants now is a shower.


ALL THE SUPPORT FROM OUR DU FRIENDS REALLY DID MEAN A LOT -- when any of us finds ourselves in the midst of a crisis, it's not the crisis that beats you down, it's the loneliness. Knowing that folks you never met and never will meet are concerned about you, worried about you, sharing your worry keeps you going. THANK YOU ALL.

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Thanks for all your support!!! (Original Post) AverageOldGuy 9 hrs ago OP
Yaaaaay! SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #1
❤️ underpants 9 hrs ago #2
💙💙💙 sheshe2 9 hrs ago #3
Good news Lifeafter70 9 hrs ago #4
Happy for both of you malaise 9 hrs ago #5
I'm sorry I missed your earlier post MustLoveBeagles 9 hrs ago #6
Glad she's home and you're both doing better! senseandsensibility 9 hrs ago #7
So happy she's home and on the road back to being her awesome self. a kennedy 9 hrs ago #8
Glad it's ok now. There's no place like home 🙏 surfered 9 hrs ago #9
So glad you were there for her Dear_Prudence 9 hrs ago #10
Oh gosh what a scare! Diamond_Dog 9 hrs ago #11
Wonderful news Grim Chieftain 9 hrs ago #12
Great news oasis 9 hrs ago #13
Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better! electric_blue68 9 hrs ago #14
I love a happy ending - TBF 9 hrs ago #15
Good news canetoad 9 hrs ago #16
I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy, JMCKUSICK 9 hrs ago #17
When grouchy is a relief BaronChocula 9 hrs ago #18
love good news! markie 9 hrs ago #19
Great to hear IbogaProject 8 hrs ago #20
So glad for both of you that she is home and healing. 3catwoman3 8 hrs ago #21
"... it's the loneliness." JoseBalow 8 hrs ago #22
Fantastic news! gademocrat7 8 hrs ago #23
Thanks for the update. yellow dahlia 8 hrs ago #24
So happy to hear the good news! MLAA 8 hrs ago #25
Wow! That EMT experience really came in handy! bsiebs 8 hrs ago #26
So glad she is better! She's lucky you were there for her. Scrivener7 8 hrs ago #27
Great news! murielm99 8 hrs ago #28
That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light niyad 7 hrs ago #29
"" AllaN01Bear 7 hrs ago #30
It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again FakeNoose 7 hrs ago #31
She sounds like me! Pucks mom 7 hrs ago #32
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope 6 hrs ago #33
Norovirus is sweeping through our county, in CA Zackzzzz 6 hrs ago #34
Good to hear Mrs. AOG is doing well! Totally Tunsie 6 hrs ago #35
I am so glad. I wonder what the heck happened?? LoisB 5 hrs ago #36

MustLoveBeagles

(17,996 posts)
6. I'm sorry I missed your earlier post
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:10 PM
9 hrs ago

I'm glad she's doing better now. Did they figure out what caused it?

Diamond_Dog

(41,351 posts)
11. Oh gosh what a scare!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:20 PM
9 hrs ago

I’m so glad to hear she is home and back to normal! That must have been really frightening!

Grim Chieftain

(2,215 posts)
12. Wonderful news
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:21 PM
9 hrs ago

So glad she is doing better. I'll keep you both in my thoughts, prayers and good wishes.

Please keep us posted, dear AverageOldGuy.

electric_blue68

(27,667 posts)
14. Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:24 PM
9 hrs ago

Really scary start, luckily she had you with extra experience!

JMCKUSICK

(6,767 posts)
17. I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy,
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:30 PM
9 hrs ago

My Good morning post today touched this very subject.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10182324564

These are tears of joy flowing for your little miracle!

3catwoman3

(29,993 posts)
21. So glad for both of you that she is home and healing.
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 08:10 PM
8 hrs ago

It seems odd that UTIs are a cause of delirium in seniors, but it's a well-known phenomenon.

niyad

(134,810 posts)
29. That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:14 PM
7 hrs ago

and love. Vibes for complete recovery and healing for you both.

FakeNoose

(42,794 posts)
31. It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:16 PM
7 hrs ago

That's the best news I've heard all day! Here's to you and the Mrs......



Pucks mom

(129 posts)
32. She sounds like me!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:27 PM
7 hrs ago

Grumbling around the house, FDT, what are you doing "Pucks Dad"?

Glad she is back to usual self!

HeartsCanHope

(1,773 posts)
33. So happy for you both!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:52 PM
6 hrs ago

Sending more healing vibes for Ms. Average Old Guy, and hope for a rapid recovery!

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