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Auggie

(33,061 posts)
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:32 PM 1 hr ago

CA assisted living facility confiscated all my mother's OTC drugs and laundry and cleaning supplies.

Anyone else have a friend or family member in a California assisted living facility undergo a recent house cleaning like this?

Staff said it was a state mandate that these items had to be reviewed and inventoried and that "most" would be returned.

I don't mean just aspirin, but hydrating skin lotion and nail polish remover.

Anyone hear of such a "mandate?"

My mother is as sharp as they come. So are many of the folks on the floor with her.

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applegrove

(131,635 posts)
1. The nurse at my mom's private retirement residence assessed correctly that my mom was having trouble
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:40 PM
1 hr ago

organizing and taking all her pills so she took them all and put mom on the list of the healthcare aide who dispensed drugs. She was looking out for mom (and probably wanting the fee). My mom was not suffering from Parkinsons' to the extent she was not aware what was going on. She just was not dealing properly with her meds. I was glad they did that.

Auggie

(33,061 posts)
3. I'm talking about Woolite. And Windex. And Skin Cream.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:44 PM
1 hr ago

Nobody assessed anything. They said "STATE MANDATE."

applegrove

(131,635 posts)
4. Strange. That is a heavy load looking out for our parents when they age.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:47 PM
1 hr ago

I found it so and I had so much help from my sister and excellent private healthcare aides who became friends.

Auggie

(33,061 posts)
5. Assisted living. Not skilled nursing. Not dementia care. A few of these folks own automobiles.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:50 PM
1 hr ago

IcyPeas

(25,321 posts)
2. Following...
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:42 PM
1 hr ago

I don't know about this. I imagine acetone nail polish remover can be questionable. But facial moisturizer? What are they looking for? I don't like the idea of things being confiscated though.

I would rather have been given notice of this new mandate including a list of what they're looking for.

Auggie

(33,061 posts)
6. I'm trying to find out about the "State Mandate." There's nothing on Google.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:52 PM
1 hr ago

Wondering if it's a BS excuse to inventory everything for insurance purposes.

Thanks for responding.

marybourg

(13,611 posts)
9. In AZ, when DH was in an assisted living group home,
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 09:13 PM
1 hr ago

all items like that had to be in a locked cabinet, because although DH was all there mentally, other home residents were not and could have gained access to these items and hurt themselves, others.

babylonsister

(172,710 posts)
10. Sounds like she was robbed. Horse poop otherwise, imo.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 09:14 PM
1 hr ago

State mandate? CA? No. Who has time for that?

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