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Some of you may remember the post I made about losing our Fionna back in December. My grief was deep, and still is, but it is getting better little by little. We were finally able to have a family memorial for her yesterday, and this is part of that.
Some of you asked me to post pictures, so I will do that, too. I hope they aren't too big, but I'm too tired to make them smaller tonight and I need to do this now. She deserves to be big anyway!
Memorial for Fionna
We have lost our beloved Fionna. She was the love of our lives, a one of a kind girl. She was not like most other dogs. She was a sable and white Border Collie, and they are just different. Not only was she beautiful, she was incredibly smart, and funny, and innovative on her own. She had a huge vocabulary and understood every word we said to her. We could speak to her like we would to a young child, and she knew what we meant. She had a sense of humor. She liked to play what she saw as jokes on us, or sometimes she would playfully hide things from us. We could tell she thought it was funny from her big smile and laughing eyes. She could run like the wind and loved doing so. She devised her own games with balls or other toys, and came up with her own "agility courses" at the dog park. We had almost 15 wonderful years with her. I miss her more than I can adequately express. We all do. She will forever be my sweet baby girl, my "little red dog." We are blessed to have known her and loved her as a part of our family. Be at peace, sweet girl, and run free.
Baby Fi


Fi in her prime


Karadeniz
(24,731 posts)Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)There were many good times with her to make us smile.
Clouds Passing
(7,446 posts)Running playfully in the fields of dog heaven
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)That is what I want for her...
oberle
(304 posts)for a beautiful girl. She will live in your memories forever.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)This is what we had engraved on the urn that now holds her ashes:
Sweet Baby Girl, you were the love of our lives.
We loved you the first time we saw you,
and will love you to the end of time.
Forever Loved, Never Forgotten.
3catwoman3
(28,880 posts)
of your beloved girl.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)I am glad you enjoyed it. She was a special girl.
SheltieLover
(78,202 posts)Ty for sharing her with us.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)I am happy to share her. She loved everyone. Well, she thought everyone should love her! And she loved back.
70sEraVet
(5,347 posts)I once had a border collie, and he was a rascal and a half. You're right -- there's something about them that sets them apart from other breeds.
They know TOO much, sometimes!
Sorry for your loss, Silver.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Border Collies are something else. They are just special. You are right that sometimes they know too much! And yes, she was so beautiful. Thank you for your post.
raging moderate
(4,608 posts)With my grandfather's severe asthma problem, back in the early 20th century, he still supported his family with his commercial & newspaper artwork. And my grandmother used her piano skills to earn money as needed by giving piano lessons. But the Great Depression got them kicked out of these endeavors and out of the home they had been buying. So they had a dreadful time, during which they and their children actually went without food for a couple of days, a few times. Finally, they decided to turn their Border Collie loose, in their new slum neighborhood, because they could no longer feed her. However, at the end of that day, this dog suddenly reappeared at their apartment door, barking furiously. When they opened the door, she trotted in with a large well-wrapped package containing several bunches of meat, which saved their lives and hers. She was a wonderful dog!
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Yes, she KNEW. They are unique. What was her name? Do you know?
raging moderate
(4,608 posts)Lassie lived for more than a decade after that.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Walleye
(44,039 posts)Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Yes, holding a memorial for her at home and online is giving me some much needed closure.
AltairIV
(1,011 posts)My heart felt condolences on your loss.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)She was, indeed, a beautiful lady.
MIButterfly
(2,310 posts)Oh, that face! ❤️ Dear Silver Gaia, I am so sorry for your loss. She sounds like such a wonderful member of your family. I wish I had the words to comfort you. I hope that you will be able to take some comfort in the memories of her and all the love and joy she brought to your lives.
Run free, Pretty Girl. You were the best.
With deepest sympathy,
MIButterfly
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)It was her face that first made me love her so. She was so expressive with her beautiful face. And her body, too. She had the cutest butt wiggle when she was happy.
She was indeed a wonderful family member. And yes, she was the best!
I will do my best to hold her in my heart with joy and love for as long as I live and then some.
Thank you for your kinds words.
JMCKUSICK
(5,513 posts)Fionna was a gorgeous dog and all the attributes she had must've made her a hoot.
God Speed and may your memories soothe you.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)She was indeed gorgeous, and yes, she was a hoot! I loved that she had a sense of humor. We all talked about that at the family memorial yesterday. She was unique in that way.
niyad
(130,445 posts)wuth us. I know she will be forever in your hearts.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Yes, she was, and always will be, my beautiful baby girl.
I am happy to share her with all of you. She loved all people and all dogs. She was supremely confidant and just felt that everyone should love her, therefore, she should love them, too.
That was what we called "Fi logic."
angrychair
(11,897 posts)17 years ago and we still are not over it. We have never got another dog since he passed away and never will. There was no one better and I miss him every day.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)LoisB
(12,555 posts)Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Your sympathy is most appreciated.
bsiebs
(935 posts)... and thank you for reminding me to give my sweet dog an extra hug...
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)to give your sweet baby some extra hugs. Our time with them is never long enough.
moonbeam23
(413 posts)Never would have guessed her as a Border Collie.
My heart breaks for you.
May you find peace and blessings and may she come back to you.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)And yes, she was a Border Collie! They come in lots of color combos and coat types, but we always just see the black and white ones in the movies.
I will be looking for her when enough time has passed...
marcopolo63
(94 posts)Your Fiona was a beauty! I bet she wouldve liked Marco, but then again maybe not. 🥴
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)She loved all dogs, and people, too!
The first thing she did when she met a new dog, after the sniffing part, of course, was to go into play stance. Then, she would give the dog her "look" and take off running, daring them to chase her. If they played chase, then they were BFFs. 🙂 She was pretty irresistable, as well as insistent, so that was usually the outcome. LOL
1WorldHope
(1,907 posts)Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)The best kind of people!
littlemissmartypants
(32,802 posts)Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)virgdem
(2,297 posts)Sending heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved Fi.💔
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Your words are much appreciated. It all helps.
stage left
(3,239 posts)I'm so sorry for your loss.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Thank you, stage left.
StarryNite
(12,017 posts)She was a beauty inside and out. The Earth is always a sadder place without them. Your family was lucky to have her and she was lucky to have you.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)We were very lucky to have her, and I hope she felt lucky to have us. She was happy.
StarryNite
(12,017 posts)That says it all. She's still with you.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)I felt her with us constantly when we first brought her ashes home (before we got the ashes, I could not find her and felt lost), and that was good and needed. But as time has progressed, I feel her presence in our home less, and that is as it should be. I want her to feel free to run like she always loved to do and could not in the weeks before we lost her. It just hurts so bad to let her go...
Upthevibe
(10,106 posts)What a beautiful tribute.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)They can make us feel such brilliant, sparkling joy with their lives, and such deep, profound sorrow when they are suddenly gone.
George McGovern
(11,170 posts)
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. Her bright eyes are intent. Her eager body quivers. Suddenly she begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, her legs carrying her faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together ~
(Adapted from - William N. Britton)
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)Let's hope it's something like that....
BlueKota
(5,137 posts)I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much it hurts. In my heart I believe you will see her again, in the after life to come.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)My heart aches for the loss of that beauty in my life, for she was beautiful both inside and out. I hope you are right and that I will see her again, in this life, in the afterlife, or in the next life.
brer cat
(27,439 posts)I am sorry for your great loss, but glad that you have all of these wonderful memories to keep her alive in your heart.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)She was most definitely a cherished member of our family. We are all grieving, but doing our best to focus on all the memories we have of her and share them with each other.
Bayard
(28,990 posts)I'm so sorry you lost your beautiful Fiona. She sounds like a, Very Good Girl.
I know your whole body and mind hurt. Take care of yourself.
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)She could be naughty and headstrong, but in a fun way, and she was so pretty, all she had to do was smile and we forgave her.
I am doing my best to take care of myself in body, mind, and spirit. It is not easy because I am quite ill as well, but I am trying. Thank you.
LetMyPeopleVote
(176,683 posts)That was a wonderful tribute to Fionna
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)I'm glad you enjoyed reading my tribute to Fionna. It was so hard to write, but only in that the tears flowed as easily as the words as I wrote it. Thank you.
ribrepin
(1,886 posts)Fly high with the angels beautiful
Silver Gaia
(5,306 posts)She was the prettiest I have ever seen. There will not be another like her in my life. Her beauty was soul-deep and so was out connection. She deserves to "fly high with the angels." Bless you for those words.
