I post pretty frequently in the classical music group, but need to pause for how long I'm not
certain.
My faithful and right arm husband died suddenly at about 6:30 a.m. Wednesday.
I am facing a ton of responsibility put on my not as strong shoulders.
This was a total unexpected shocker.
Medical examiner report not done as yet.
Speculation is massive coronary. Which makes most sense bc of how fast it happened.
You are my dear DU family. Please do not have such sorrow. Or grieve hard.
I only tell you this sad news bc it may be wondered what happened to me.
Love all of you.....
missingthebigdog
(1,233 posts)Me.
(35,454 posts)marylandblue
(12,344 posts)Rhiannon12866
(258,910 posts)We are a community here and will do all we can to support you - so please let us know how you're doing when you can. Sending love back to you...
elleng
(141,926 posts)Snotcicles
(9,089 posts)shenmue
(38,610 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(131,250 posts)My thoughts are with you. Please come back when you're ready, and in the meantime take care of yourself.
blm
(114,763 posts)🙏🏽
AJT
(5,240 posts)My heart goes out to you.
yonder
(10,317 posts)3catwoman3
(29,809 posts)...of you to let us know. Wishing you more strength.
KT2000
(22,223 posts)what a shock for you. You have my sympathy.
akraven
(1,975 posts)You lived, so you loved. Thanks for letting us know.

Cha
(320,641 posts)samir.g
(836 posts)irisblue
(37,933 posts)SleeplessinSoCal
(10,439 posts)Best of luck for attaining the strength you need to get through one day at a time. And may your classical music catalogue help along the way.
murielm99
(33,093 posts)denbot
(9,950 posts)Peace to you and yours.
alwaysinasnit
(5,648 posts)strength for you to deal with your loss and know that we will welcome you back with joy when you are ready.
fierywoman
(8,632 posts)broaden my world. My heart to you at this time.
No Vested Interest
(5,300 posts)of the many you have consoled and reached out to on DU.
I also know that you are part of a strong faith community who will wrap their arms around you and bring you the strength you will need at this time and into the future.
We at DU will miss you and your wisdom, but we can go to the many offerings you have posted in the classical music group and choose to listen to what ever suits us at the moment.
Take very good care of yourself during this difficult time, and feel the love of so many.
Beacool
(30,524 posts)I can't imagine the shock of losing your husband so suddenly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My sincerest condolences to all of you.
LudwigPastorius
(15,010 posts)May you find a measure of solace in the many sweet memories of him you surely have.
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)And strength vibes sent your way...🕯
YOHABLO
(7,358 posts)madamesilverspurs
(16,535 posts)and remembering how many times you posted music that conveyed blessings when most needed. May some of those blessings return to you now!
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iamateacher
(1,121 posts)There are no words....you are loved and in our prayers.
patricia92243
(12,981 posts)mahina
(20,724 posts)And a prayer for safe passage for your dear husband. May your love light his path. Hell be there to welcome you one day.
Aloha and love to you.
Dennis Donovan
(31,059 posts)njhoneybadger
(3,911 posts)ms liberty
(11,372 posts)I know how hard it is to lose a loved one in this sudden, unexpected way. Ill be thinking of you and sending you love and strength.
swimboy
(7,331 posts)This must be so difficult compounded by the unexpectedness. Hoping for the greatest grace in getting through it. Im so sorry.
AwakeAtLast
(14,315 posts)My sincere condolences to you!
sprinkleeninow
(22,473 posts)sadness.
The out pouring from our street neighbors, those in church community, grocery store staff [yes], his company nationwide... I am overwhelmed.
I need to preserve myself for my dogga daughter who is so great a comfort to me. My responsibility.
I am hating this pressure to attend to all this added planning for his final stay in our presence. Then the legal stuff.
Today was rough. I go up, down, sideways.
I want to be okay and survive this.
I never even remotely thought of something such as this coming to our 'house'.
All your prayers, good vibes, positive thoughts are sustaining me. It's spirit to spirit. And for this I humbly thank you.
Love....
MineralMan
(151,566 posts)I wish you strength.
CBHagman
(17,533 posts)May his life with you always be a source of strength and blessing.
May peace and comfort surround you and fill you.
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