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MineralMan

(150,401 posts)
6. The closest I came was in the USAF in 1969.
Wed Nov 26, 2025, 01:23 PM
Nov 26

The unit I was assigned to was in the middle of one of those charity drives, where the company commanders were competing with each other to see who got the most signups for donations. A lot of pressure was put on us by the high ranking enlisted people. I said no. The First Sergeant gave me a ration of shit about that and put even more pressure on me. I refused, after explaining that I was already donating to a non-profit and didn't make enough money to add to my donations.

Next thing I knew, I was in the Colonel's office, getting pressured by that officer. He literally ordered me to donate. I knew that there were rules against forcing enlisted personnel to donate to charities. I cited that rule. The Colonel literally threatened to court martial me if I didn't comply with his order. I simply said, "Well, then, I request to be represented by someone from the JAG office." I thought he'd choke on his spittle.

That was the end of it. I never heard another word about it. So, you can stand up to even a Colonel, if you know you're right. I do suggest using great caution before doing that, though.

I refused orders once... [View all] Capperdan Nov 26 OP
I never disobeyed an order when I was on active duty EYESORE 9001 Nov 26 #1
It's amazing what people (soldiers) will do if they've been told the "others" are the enemy. erronis Nov 26 #3
Trump needs to lie to the soldiers and sailors popsdenver Nov 26 #21
You can be a lot proud of that one. TheRickles Nov 26 #2
Please accept my gratitude, sir! lastlib Nov 26 #4
Thank you lastlib Capperdan Nov 26 #9
And you should be proud, MarineCombatEngineer Nov 26 #5
And back at you MCE Capperdan Nov 26 #10
The closest I came was in the USAF in 1969. MineralMan Nov 26 #6
My hat off to you, MM. That takes guts and a true sense of what's right. erronis Nov 26 #23
Or, I'm a smartass. MineralMan Nov 26 #24
I think you were a smart smartass. 3catwoman3 Nov 26 #25
I had a similar experience LogDog75 Nov 26 #34
Yes, exactly. MineralMan Thursday #36
We were breaking down our NDP (night defensive position), and The Wizard Nov 26 #7
Yup, brave. Joinfortmill Nov 26 #8
more info? NJCher Nov 26 #11
LOL! Great gifs FakeNoose Nov 26 #20
You should be proud. Nt Figarosmom Nov 26 #12
Love that you did this, and that blue_jay Nov 26 #13
And you should be mountain grammy Nov 26 #14
A little proud? llmart Nov 26 #15
Good on you. 3catwoman3 Nov 26 #16
Im sure it would have Capperdan Nov 26 #27
Thank you Capperdan! Clouds Passing Nov 26 #17
I salute your service, honor and integrity, Capperdan Grim Chieftain Nov 26 #18
Well thanks, GC Capperdan Nov 26 #28
Had a friend in the Army refuse an order in Vietnam surfered Nov 26 #19
thank you for your honorable service. cab67 Nov 26 #22
My father refused Bmoboy Nov 26 #26
Thank you KT2000 Nov 26 #29
Thank you. I'm proud of you too. Ohioboy Nov 26 #30
Precisely the Correct Action Nictuku Nov 26 #31
On the other hand . . . Aussie105 Nov 26 #32
If that happened, no one would consider charging the coerced soldier. TomSlick Nov 26 #33
My late brother, who flew BlueMTexpat Thursday #35
This message was self-deleted by its author sarchasm Thursday #37
I was in 6-years. I NEVER got an illegal order. Grins Thursday #38
At Kent State the students tricked a gung ho commander into following them. GreenWave Thursday #39
Those were crazy times to be 20 years old Capperdan Thursday #41
My ROTC Ranger group committed mass mutiny one time... malthaussen Thursday #40
On the other hand (and only tangentially related) malthaussen Thursday #42
I am thankful I never had to face a situation in which I would have to refuse an order. mucholderthandirt Thursday #43
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