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haele

(15,090 posts)
66. Not quite. I grew up a poor Southern California urban kid in the 1960's.
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 11:56 AM
Dec 29

As a kid in the 1960's, you were still expected to respect your elders..
School days, maybe you got to play after school, but most times you were doing homework and cleaning up before and after dinner. The stereo was for background music while cleaning. The TV was for watching the news and maybe one show your parents approved of. The rest of the night was for homework, a family game or project, or to spend an hour bringing out the toys you were going to play with or reading. Then pick up and get ready for beds.

Weekends were never "carefree and casual" - you still had to get up "early" (by 06:30/07:00) on Saturday to gather up your dirty clothes to put in the laundry, make your bed, put up everything in your room, and go out and get a broom to sweep your room (including under your bed) before coming out to a cooked breakfast and a short time watching cartoons on TV if you had one.
Then you helped with heavy cleaning until late morning.
And then...the Family weekend - day trip to a park (walk or bike), home or furniture repair (basic carpentry, auto, painting, plumbing, roofing, yard work, ect...), going berry picking, walking the dog, family games, club events (camp fire, sports or hobby groups) heading to the library...

Summer was for the family camping trip, hanging out at the city park or running around the block, or a hobby jobs "for pin or sweets money", or charity work - whether or not you belonged to a church, there was always some sort of local charitable organization that needed quick hands or a kid with a bike or wagon to check on people or deliver items.

Spending the day sitting on your ass in the morning or afternoon watching TV was only for the days there was a televised sports event to watch.

I've always believed Teen Age as we know it in the US is a product of Marketing and a conservative economic push to create generations of passive drones forcing families to have two working adults and a lot of unsupervised or non-directed free time for adolescents.

Teens aren't necessarily stupid, but they can be selfish and pig-headed in thinking they're adults without understanding the responsibility on what being an adult in a community entails.

And the "Leave it to Beaver/Happy Days/Brady Bunch" BS TV was pushing on kids of the 60's and 70's was not what most of their parents experienced growing up, unless their folks were well off enough to have a housekeeper or nanny.

Most urban/suburban kids grew up with chores, neighborhood friends, and periods of family boredom where they had to read, make things, explore the local area, or otherwise figure out ways of entertaining themselves in the 1960's and 70's.

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Interesting take FHRRK Dec 28 #1
Never wanted to stay home from school sick. multigraincracker Dec 28 #16
This is AI slop from a channel posting videos on different subjects every couple of days, with highplainsdem Dec 28 #36
How to vilify a generation with a broad brush... NotHardly Dec 28 #43
It's almost like the well of resilience we need is in our 1960s generation bucolic_frolic Dec 28 #2
What stands out to me PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 28 #3
We were free range kids... ananda Dec 28 #5
Yep. Just be home by dinner. Martin Eden Dec 28 #7
my HS School years, we'd get 20 or so social misfits to play baseball. A lot of LL kids that never made it to JV OAITW r.2.0 Dec 28 #28
I remember that. And I got to be 11 or 12 years old in the boys told me I couldn't play anymore because I was a girl. Walleye Dec 29 #55
Me as well, I played from early morning until it was too dark to see. CanonRay Dec 29 #62
They're AI graphics. No Black people, either. Imagine, no Black people in a video ostensibly about the 60s. AI slop. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 28 #9
So the message lacks legitimacy? OAITW r.2.0 Dec 28 #15
This video describes fairly universal themes through a lens that makes "60s kids" feel unique -- which is catnip for just WhiskeyGrinder Dec 28 #21
You are 16 dimensions above me in your moral perspective. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 28 #31
To put it simply: "Every generation after mine is terrible" Orrex Dec 29 #57
I never thought that. But thanks for contributing to the conversation. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 30 #79
It wasn't aimed at you; it was a summary of and agreement with the post above yours Orrex Dec 30 #82
I guess, becasue I have 2 in their 30's, I beg to differ. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 30 #84
Again, it's not targeting you, and in any case it's not universal at the personal level Orrex Dec 30 #85
I started feeling like something was wrong extremely on, and I admit I quit half way to the end. 1WorldHope Dec 28 #32
The narrator is speaking with a British accent, I'm pretty sure this is mostly about the UK FakeNoose Dec 28 #42
You are right about no black people, but of course there would PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 29 #44
Whaaat? There are plenty of films and photos of Black people from the 1960s. But this video was made in 2025 with 2025 WhiskeyGrinder Dec 29 #50
I graduated in 1967 and I remember quite clearly when our schools desegregated. Walleye Dec 29 #56
I graduated also from h.s. in 1967! I may have seen, probably did see, Blacks..... ColoringFool Dec 29 #65
We always had a good percentage of Black people living in Delaware. And I live right next-door to a stone cold racist Walleye Dec 29 #68
"And how many of us White girls would "make an exception for" Sidney Poitier?" WhiskeyGrinder Dec 29 #72
Exception To The 1960s Milieu's View Of Mixed-Race Relationships ColoringFool Dec 30 #73
Okay but you do see how saying there is a single Black man out there for whom you would make an "exception" to society's WhiskeyGrinder Dec 30 #75
I have always said the downfall and the weight issues with this Country started with the remote control for tv. a kennedy Dec 28 #10
Right. Because you get so much exercise walking PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 28 #12
Yah, those how ever many steps they take from right after super to bed time, what 4 hours??? a kennedy Dec 28 #13
I had lots of PE in my school. Formal and informal. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 28 #17
California required 1 hour of PE daily mainer Dec 28 #18
I hated it because I have thick hair and Tree Lady Dec 28 #20
No PE in school Diamond_Dog Dec 29 #54
It wasn't changing the channel where moonscape Dec 28 #14
Well, that is part of it. OldBaldy1701E Dec 29 #53
There were plenty of so-called "overweight" kids then. Don't kid yourself. valleyrogue Dec 29 #63
We didn't eat out, or fast food mtngirl47 Dec 28 #40
People took diet pills, especially women. Girls were fat shamed to high heaven, often by their mothers. valleyrogue Dec 29 #47
This is my life MoonlightHillFarm Dec 28 #4
Who is When Jekyll Meets Hyde? What research goes into these assertions? What are these AI-voiced claims based on? WhiskeyGrinder Dec 28 #6
I watched, I related. You didn't? OAITW r.2.0 Dec 28 #19
You related to it because you were primed to and it's designed to be relatable. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 28 #22
It's fundamentally wrong because it's made with unethical tools trained on stolen intellectual highplainsdem Dec 28 #25
I get what you are sayings....and yes, maybe a warning should warn the consumer that AI content is involved. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 28 #37
Yeah, I watched a little of their, 'Psychology of People Who Grew Up in the 1980s" video. progressoid Dec 28 #27
I was curious myself.... IcyPeas Dec 28 #39
Some are copycats. Some apparently operate multiple channels. Some are likely from content farms highplainsdem Dec 29 #46
Interesting reply. I too have noticed... Pluvious Dec 29 #71
Ok Boomers.... multigraincracker Dec 28 #8
I kept my 50 cents a week allowance in a metal Bandaid can... 3catwoman3 Dec 28 #11
This is AI slop, from a channel set up a couple of months ago that already has 26 videos. This sort highplainsdem Dec 28 #23
Thank you canetoad Dec 28 #33
More than 20% of the videos that YouTube's algorithm shows to new users are "AI slop" chia Dec 29 #60
I used to think you were way off base ranting about AI and posting too often about it thebigidea Dec 30 #77
Well, thanks. LOL. I'm sorry you haven't liked my tactics, but without a way to directly transfer everything I've highplainsdem Dec 30 #78
Ty for your dedication to ethics & to educating others with your vast knowledge & experience SheltieLover Dec 30 #83
Thanks, SheltieLover! You're too kind, though. I'm just trying to keep with the news about genAI highplainsdem Dec 30 #86
You are doing great work, HPD SheltieLover Dec 31 #87
Those who didn't live through it and try to defend 3825-87867 Dec 28 #24
Not everyone's Keepthesoulalive Dec 28 #26
As a witness of the actual 60's (and the bullshit this video is trying to turn into "Happy Days"), Conjuay Dec 28 #29
You are absolutely right. my mom's 1st cousin never really returned from WW2 and OAITW r.2.0 Dec 28 #41
Also a reality back then: thucythucy Dec 29 #59
I'm not sure canetoad Dec 28 #30
Every generation has its challenges. BarbD Dec 28 #34
De rec. AI slop. Shallow, sweeping, pop psychology generalisations. It's self-congratulatory fortune cookie-style cringe Celerity Dec 28 #35
YouTube is rapidly becoming full of AI slop like this. tinrobot Dec 29 #69
Interesting. H2O Man Dec 28 #38
I kind of relate Historic NY Dec 29 #45
Pre and post The Wizard Dec 29 #48
My youth was spent... BH liberal Dec 29 #49
I am curious, will we just assume AI is slop, or will cachukis Dec 29 #51
I remember all the things in that video but I question the conclusions it draws. Ocelot II Dec 29 #52
49'er Here. We Have Been Labeled, Vilified, Praised, Envied, Etc. Boomers are NOT.... ColoringFool Dec 29 #67
We are so unprepared for people using AI to manipulate us ThreeNoSeep Dec 29 #58
And after all that, Turbineguy Dec 29 #61
EVERYONE should see reply 39 from IcyPeas. highplainsdem Dec 29 #64
I can't find reply #39 Mossfern Dec 30 #80
Sure! Here: highplainsdem Dec 30 #81
Not quite. I grew up a poor Southern California urban kid in the 1960's. haele Dec 29 #66
I hated "Leave it to Beaver" Wifes husband Dec 29 #70
Some people love AI Patton French Dec 30 #74
I grew up in the 1960s RazorbackExpat Dec 30 #76
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