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10. Listen to your body - this is among the best advice people should hear. Men especially.

I had a high PSA score this fall. This led to an MRI and two CT scans - without, then with contrast. This led to a prostate biopsy. While the biopsy is no fun at all, I learned I don't have prostate cancer.

They found a mass on my kidney that will require a partial nephrectomy. My urologist said these present as malignant 80% of the time - they don't even biopsy them. He told me there's no chemo or radiation after this. And I should expect 6-8 weeks of light activity before I can go back to my regular programming.

So I feel lucky and happy that I didn't put off getting everything looked at.

The other pieces of advice I have to give are to:

Ask questions - there are no stupid questions when it comes to your health. If something confuses or concerns you, ask about it. Even if it occurs to you long after an appointment. Write it down and ask at your next appointment - or call/email the doctor's office.

Do some research - not Facebook or Twitter, but reputable resources. Learn about your issues, treatment, and recovery. This will help to ask better questions when you're with your physician.

I've known lots of men who just put it off, are afraid to ask questions because it will "make them look stupid", or don't plan ahead. Several of them are dead - several others got lucky. I'd like to be in charge of my health and create some luck.

I appreciate the thread JMC - and good luck on your recovery.