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Wonder Why

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25. I don't want to take away any credit from the surgeon. He probed and prodded my leg as well as asking me to
Sat Feb 28, 2026, 09:54 PM
22 hrs ago

move in certain ways, each time, explaining why and what he was looking for. It was he that initiated the MRI request.
The problem with the medical system is that the doctor prescribes a treatment or wants a revisit in a specific time frame but has no knowledge that his office is booked for weeks or the MRI facility for months.

He sees the need, makes the decisions but it is the patient that discovers the hard way that what he asked for is not possible to get without his intervention. I praise him for, when I notified his office of the issue, he saw to it that things were speeded up, if not sufficiently. There is no closed loop where his staff can immediately notify him that his request isn't going to be what he intends.

My GP is like him. Both he and she are willing to do something when I notify them of an issue but, unfortunately, too few people can or will make the effort to do so. We accept the system. Like you, we have to say something but it's not as easy as it sounds. We are intimidated by the system, the bureaucracy, our procrastination, or our ability to express our needs. My problem is my memory. I go into the doctor's office with 3 issues but fail to remember them and fail to remember to read them on my cell phone or the note in my pocket. So it waits until the next time.

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Wonder why the universe is aiming these thoughts at me today... buzzycrumbhunger Yesterday #1
I'll only suggest that it resonates for a reason. May it be for great reasons. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #4
You, too, John! buzzycrumbhunger 23 hrs ago #8
I think that post you saw is wonderfully profound, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #5
Very nice. Your words will help quite a few, I'd bet. Good on ya and may your health hlthe2b Yesterday #2
Thank you Hlthe2b, I hope so on all counts. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #3
Very informative and beautifully written post, john. Thank you for posting. debm55 Yesterday #6
Thank you Debbie JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #15
This is good advice, I had two strokes in 2015, blocked vertebral artery, aortic heart valve replaced in 2024 Shellback Squid 23 hrs ago #7
And here we are to talk about it. I'm so glad for you Shellback Squid JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #17
God bless you. You convinced me. I will make an appointment MerryBlooms 23 hrs ago #9
Please go to the Emergency room tonight MerryBlooms. JMCKUSICK 23 hrs ago #11
I second this, John! SheltieLover 11 hrs ago #41
I hope she went. JMCKUSICK 10 hrs ago #44
I hope so, too! SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #47
MerryBlooms, I just saw this post and hope you have gone to ER and get this checked. Just 3 nights ago, I went to the KitFox 21 hrs ago #29
Thank you for those really important words KitFox JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #31
Listen to your body - this is among the best advice people should hear. Men especially. Probatim 23 hrs ago #10
You are so right to remind us to ask all the questions that arise JMCKUSICK 23 hrs ago #14
Happy Anniversary JM ❤️ You have much more to live for 🩵 Clouds Passing 23 hrs ago #12
Thank you CloudsPassing, you were amongst the first to help me believe that might be true. JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #35
I'm coming along slowly. Thanks 😊 Clouds Passing 10 hrs ago #43
A great OP malaise 23 hrs ago #13
Thank you Malaise, coming from you it means a lot. JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #19
You are so right! After my being hit by a car last week and the hospital saying "no fractures", I was still Wonder Why 22 hrs ago #16
Wow, and good on you for doing the single most important part. JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #18
I don't want to take away any credit from the surgeon. He probed and prodded my leg as well as asking me to Wonder Why 22 hrs ago #25
Good words markie 22 hrs ago #20
Thanks for sharing your important story Markie, JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #32
Healing vibes on the way to you. SheltieLover 11 hrs ago #42
This part, especially: calimary 22 hrs ago #21
Thank you for highlighting what I thought was the most important part of my post Calimary, JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #36
Bookmarked MustLoveBeagles 22 hrs ago #22
Thank you MustLoveBeagles JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #33
whenever i go into hospital for afib ,(mostly tacy), the last time i went in for a flutter, i always say thank you to th AllaN01Bear 22 hrs ago #23
An attitude of gratitude is a healer all by itself JMCKUSICK 5 hrs ago #50
Thank you for this heart-warming and eloquent piece FakeNoose 22 hrs ago #24
Thank you FakeNoose, your words lift me. JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #30
Glad to be Rec number 100.. Permanut 21 hrs ago #26
Thank you Permanut. JMCKUSICK 10 hrs ago #45
Bookmarked. Dear_Prudence 21 hrs ago #27
Thank you Dear_Prudence JMCKUSICK 21 hrs ago #28
Oh, dear John, thank you for this and all of your KitFox 20 hrs ago #34
Thank you so much for saying so KitFox. JMCKUSICK 2 hrs ago #55
Thank you John, for sharing this FemDemERA 16 hrs ago #37
Thank you for the kind words FemDemERA JMCKUSICK 11 hrs ago #40
Don't smoke... returnee 13 hrs ago #38
Right on all counts of course, thank you Returnee JMCKUSICK 11 hrs ago #39
Glad you made it through Chi67 9 hrs ago #46
How beautiful. Alliepoo 7 hrs ago #48
Lol, never read good books right after cutting onions. JMCKUSICK 5 hrs ago #51
Thank you for your heartfelt and loving post Wild blueberry 7 hrs ago #49
I'm glad you're Faux pas 5 hrs ago #52
Thank you Faux Pas JMCKUSICK 5 hrs ago #53
Great post popsdenver 3 hrs ago #54
Thank you PopsDenver JMCKUSICK 55 min ago #57
Thank you and I wish you a good recovery. pandr32 1 hr ago #56
Thank you and agreed Pandr32 JMCKUSICK 27 min ago #58
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