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gopiscrap

(24,680 posts)
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 03:50 PM 18 hrs ago

When I was 7 years old on a snowy, icy morning I held my mom's hand [View all]

as we walked to my fathers new gravesite 3 days before Christmas. I sat there staring at my 38 year old father's flag draped coffin. I cried as I heard taps being played, trembled when the rifles sent out their volleys, and gasped in anguished grief as they lowered my father into the cold earth never to be seen again. It is a searing memory and one that is indelible in a child's mind even as he grows to adulthood.

Why did this happen, my father was shot in Vietnam and and died when he came stateside. He was one of those 58,000 US military victims.

But the one good thing was that his country and president honored him. They accorded him the respect he deserved and affirmed and grieved with his survivors.

I find it completely morally reprehensible and an affront to those families that must go through what I went through, but with the callousness of our leader (and mourner in chief) and his sycophant followers. Never had we had a president who is so unfeeling, so callous and so ignorant of what is required to be a leader. This soulless son of a bitch has no clue what it means to sacrifice, to empathise with another's grief. He will never apologize, he will never recognize their pain. A good start would be to lower the flag at a minimum.

I apologize (on behalf of trump) to those families who are feeling the beginning of this life long grief. This president will never apologize My heart is with you. I can identify with the road you are taking.

And to this administration: Shame on you, not only are you uncaring in a time of this immoral war, but you make the pain of the families who paid the ultimate price harder and with deeper scars!

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Deepest condolences on your loss SheltieLover 18 hrs ago #1
What an agonizingly vivid picture you paint with your words. 3catwoman3 18 hrs ago #2
Heartbreaking to read this. redwitch 18 hrs ago #3
And there are those who will never comprehend PatSeg 18 hrs ago #4
This is a powerful message, gopiscrap. sheshe2 18 hrs ago #5
So sorry for lives lost and other war destruction. PufPuf23 18 hrs ago #6
I'm so sorry for your loss and pain, gopiscrap. democrank 18 hrs ago #7
I'm so sorry you went through that MustLoveBeagles 17 hrs ago #8
I'm so sorry for your loss, and at such a young age. greatauntoftriplets 17 hrs ago #9
They don't care fujiyamasan 17 hrs ago #10
Well, some around Trmp will acknowledge it's "bad optics" -- Trmp himself will never, ever care. eppur_se_muova 17 hrs ago #11
Our service members who lost their lives for this country were once honored and revered Grim Chieftain 17 hrs ago #12
What a moving post. My mother died of cancer when I was 8 and it's something that never, ever leaves you. Vinca 17 hrs ago #13
my heart is with you gopiscrap 16 hrs ago #20
OMG - you poor thing. I'm so sorry you had so much tragedy so young. Vinca 15 hrs ago #32
My heart is with you. Hope22 17 hrs ago #14
This is a reminder KT2000 17 hrs ago #15
Do you really think I should this to them gopiscrap 16 hrs ago #24
Yes! KT2000 14 hrs ago #33
This reminds me of my dad's funeral. ananda 17 hrs ago #16
my heart is with you gopiscrap 17 hrs ago #17
And mine with you. ananda 17 hrs ago #18
Thank you for this important post, so well expressed Alice Kramden 16 hrs ago #19
Taps is the most heart wrenching composition imaginable,IMHO. BattleRow 16 hrs ago #21
I'm so sorry for the loss of your father wendyb-NC 16 hrs ago #22
Too sad malaise 16 hrs ago #23
Amen. GiqueCee 16 hrs ago #25
I am so sorry - TBF 16 hrs ago #26
This is a very special post. Thank you. hamsterjill 16 hrs ago #27
I am so sorry for your loss. HeartsCanHope 16 hrs ago #28
Your father Clouds Passing 15 hrs ago #29
Beautiful post. mountain grammy 15 hrs ago #30
Many of us will gladly give you the sincerity you still deserve, gopiscrap. calimary 15 hrs ago #31
Here's the reaction to your post Mme. Defarge 14 hrs ago #34
will do that gopiscrap 14 hrs ago #35
I hope you'll let us know Mme. Defarge 13 hrs ago #37
Thank you for sharing your story. yellow dahlia 13 hrs ago #36
And now I'm ugly crying EuterpeThelo 12 hrs ago #38
K&R spanone 12 hrs ago #39
I hope you're watching/watched Lawrence. Mme. Defarge 12 hrs ago #40
Wow! I too was 7 years old when blue-wave 10 hrs ago #41
Thank you. God bless and comfort you. AverageOldGuy 9 hrs ago #42
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