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LisaM

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110. This is wonderful.

Reply to MarineCombatEngineer (Original post)

Tue Mar 10, 2026, 09:13 AM

14 hrs ago

There's no reason either of you should spend this chapter of your life being lonely. It also sounds as if you have great kids and grandkids. Maybe she does, too.

My widowed mother is 90 today, about ready for assisted living, and loneliness is, I think, her biggest issue, as it is with many older people. I hope this develops into something!

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Just be yourself is the best advice. NoRethugFriends Monday #1

Quoting a character in a book: be yourself, everyone else is taken. question everything Monday #40

I LOVE that Mira 4 hrs ago #137

Good luck! Danmel Monday #2

NoRethugFriends is absolutely right! Be yourself. And that includes be honest. CaliforniaPeggy Monday #3

Thank you, MarineCombatEngineer Monday #4

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I hope you have a wonderful date and you both enjoy each other's company. LoisB Monday #7

wishing you much luck! -eom vanessa_ca Monday #8

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Don't think of it as a date! LuckyCharms Monday #11

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Good luck, MarineCombatEngineer. MIButterfly Monday #13

Everything you just said . . . tell her that. Just, tell her. Maru Kitteh Monday #14

Any dating advice I can get is greatly appreciated. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #15

How fun! It sounds like great beginnings. My 88-yr-old mom has an 89-year-old Nixie Monday #16

How sweet malaise Monday #24

".. They sparked.. " That Spark is so important... Cha 20 hrs ago #104

Hi Cha! ❤️. Yes, it's been a fun thing to see develop. Nixie 2 hrs ago #138

Aww Nixie ☮️💜 Cha 2 hrs ago #139

Wish you luck KT2000 Monday #17

Apparently, according to my children and grandchildren, MarineCombatEngineer Monday #19

This reminds me of a Patricia Neal line from the WW2 movie 'In Harm's Way'-- Jack Valentino Monday #50

Not man and 'girl' anymore. nt GenThePerservering 5 hrs ago #136

Relax, smile just be yourself. Things will go as they should. Srkdqltr Monday #18

Wishing you good luck and a fine time, this weekend! calimary Monday #20

If you can make her consistently laugh, you're 75% there! Enter stage left Monday #21

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Oh, don't kid yourseld, I am asking for advice. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #28

My 2 cents: you are a bright, well rounded chap. Think of it as an opportunity to make a friend Attilatheblond 23 hrs ago #94

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Remember that she is in the same Figarosmom Monday #31

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No, she's never heard of DU and she has zero interest in social media. nt MarineCombatEngineer Monday #67

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My advice (as a woman in my later years) is try to keep your expectations down to a minimum FakeNoose Monday #36

This is the sweetest post in a long time! Love that your kids and grandkids are in on it, too! Deuxcents Monday #37

How wonderful for you MCE, dare to hope, dare to dream, and dare to try. JMCKUSICK Monday #38

I'm curious. skypilot Monday #39

Go in 2 different cars, split the check if she's amendable and have an exit strategy if needed. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #69

Seems a little extreme to me, too HighFired49 Monday #85

Very good advice, and like I told my daughter and granddaughters, MarineCombatEngineer Monday #86

Best of luck MCE! AloeVera Monday #41

Thank you AloeVera, MarineCombatEngineer Monday #71

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Soldier? SOLDIER? MarineCombatEngineer Monday #73

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My wife tells me woman judge on men's shoes also FHRRK1 Monday #56

OMG--- no wonder I get no invitations---! Jack Valentino Monday #57

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She finished her first solo with no problems at all, MarineCombatEngineer Monday #76

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Good On You!!!! BurnDoubt Monday #46

OOHRAH!!! COL Mustard Monday #47

life is short. do what makes you happy Takket Monday #48

You will do fine MCE! Irish_Dem Monday #49

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My advice...since you asked... maspaha Monday #58

Did you determine if she's a Dem, or not? Bayard Monday #60

She's a dedicated Dem and, yes, we're having dinner together. nt MarineCombatEngineer Monday #80

She sounds like a keeper! Bayard 10 hrs ago #119

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Very happy for you. Just be you. Joinfortmill Monday #62

Be In The Moment, Not Past, Not Future. 👍🤞 ColoringFool Monday #63

I'm JEALOUS !!! I DON'T have a date for this weekend.... Jack Valentino Monday #64

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I'll pass along my dad's dating advice: LudwigPastorius Monday #78

LOL. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #81

Like others have said, be yourself. Beacool Monday #79

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This whole thread is so damn cool. Permanut Monday #83

And you will get it. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #87

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Thank you and I will give a full report, up to a certain point. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #88

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LOL, no, no videos or...................... nt MarineCombatEngineer 23 hrs ago #91

Good Luck ChicagoTeamster 23 hrs ago #90

Ha! Good on ya man! Hey Joe 23 hrs ago #92

I'm happy for you! summer_in_TX 23 hrs ago #93

That's wonderful news, best of luck! Talitha 23 hrs ago #95

She's Portuguese so I'm thinking of taking her into Phoenix to a Portuguese restaurant to dine, MarineCombatEngineer 23 hrs ago #96

The restaurant sounds nice, I bet she'll enjoy that. Talitha 22 hrs ago #98

Ha! Best wishes, ED Evolve Dammit 22 hrs ago #101

Man, I hope you have a great time. Arthur_Frain 23 hrs ago #97

Good luck MCE! We are all rooting for you to have a nice night out. Ilikepurple 22 hrs ago #99

It'll be fine Boo1 22 hrs ago #100

I am clueless. DFW 21 hrs ago #102

Have a great time Laurelin 21 hrs ago #103

Good luck! Enjoy yourself. Scrivener7 19 hrs ago #105

My father remarried after my mother's death. NNadir 18 hrs ago #106

Best of luck! viva la 17 hrs ago #107

Thanks for sharing orangecrush 15 hrs ago #108

Is she a Democrat? babylonsister 15 hrs ago #109

This is wonderful. LisaM 14 hrs ago #110

Much good luck MCE 🍀 Clouds Passing 14 hrs ago #111

Good to hear IbogaProject 14 hrs ago #112

Hang in there Cherokee100 13 hrs ago #113

Relax and be natural. If you already clicked when not on a date, you already know the answer. Be yourself. appleannie1 12 hrs ago #114

be you... onethatcares 12 hrs ago #115

Luck! pandr32 12 hrs ago #116

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Best wishes for you to both find companionship and happiness. Moostache 10 hrs ago #120

Enjoy Tetrachloride 9 hrs ago #121

Make every day count. Good luck! dalton99a 9 hrs ago #122

Good luck. bluestarone 9 hrs ago #123

Just be yourself. Kid Berwyn 9 hrs ago #124

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Aww, good luck! I hope you both have a wonderful time. 50 Shades Of Blue 9 hrs ago #126

Well, how'd it go? mr715 8 hrs ago #127

It's not until this Saturday. nt MarineCombatEngineer 6 hrs ago #135

I remember the line from Sleepless in Seattle, HeartsCanHope 8 hrs ago #128

Have fun, MCE Niagara 8 hrs ago #129

Just one word Botany 8 hrs ago #130

you won't need luck... markie 7 hrs ago #131

Good luck m8! I hope you 2 have a wonderful time! Celerity 7 hrs ago #132

Finally, a post that makes us smile! Have fun. Vinca 7 hrs ago #133

I wish you all the happiness in the world popsdenver 6 hrs ago #134