Could we be kind to Noem's husband?

[meadowlander]

30. To me that's where the discussion has been crossing the line into kink shaming

because what that person is saying to anyone else in the world that is into bimbo-ization as a kink is that they're freaks too, and by extension lesser humans.

I don't care what Bryon wants to do in his free time that doesn't hurt anyone else. He's fair game to the extent that he was a hypocrite and apparently on board with persecuting trans people with his vile wife. But he isn't a "freak" because he has a fetish and neither is anyone else who does (at least 50% of the population).

I guess my other general suggestion would be that kindness is free and about the sort of person you want to be, not the target of scorn (and other people like him). Maybe think about how you'd feel if you found out tomorrow he killed himself over this and then have a second think about any comment you might feel doesn't represent your best self.