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LeftInTX

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121. Hubby said that he could have said, "I was drunk", "It was a prank"
Wed Apr 1, 2026, 04:35 PM
21 hrs ago

But he didn't. So, this is an ongoing thing with him. He also paid sex workers thousand of dollars.


But you are true that drag and sex pranks exist for fun and entertainment.

In 1978, a group of us went to an adult book store. My first time. We bought a bunch of "sex toys" for a party we were planning. We bought huge dildos. I'm a straight female BTW, who was still a virgin at the time. I had an ex who was stalking me and we figured a "sex party" was a way to get rid of him. We dressed up a straight guy that who liked to have fun in a negligee and put the dildo in his fly. Another one of us was grabbing his breasts. My friend was grabbing the huge dildo. Picture time!! We also had oral pics on the dildo. The thing looked real. We laughed the entire time. Someone warned us not to get the pics developed, but we did anyway.

Ex stood outside the house the entire time watching the spectacle.

At one point, I went in the bedroom with the negilgee guy and made a bunch of sex noises. I sounded like Donna Summer.

I was only friends with the guys at the party, so nothing happened with me and any of them. They were "all in" to get rid of my stalking ex. I can't remember whether the party detered my ex. But we sure had fun creating this "comedy".


No repercussions ever happened. The pics got tons of laughs. I finally discarded them after I got married and pregnant.

Yes, our pics looked bad!! We could have gotten in trouble somewhere if someone wanted to use them against us.

But I don't think that's what was going on with Bryon Noem.

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Agree.. agingdem Yesterday #65
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I could be wrong but there's something called divorce and agingdem Yesterday #81
I see ForgedCrank Yesterday #85
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Of course, the right's criticism of progressive politicians spouses is off limits. And if she loves him, surfered Yesterday #90
Welcome to DU, enjoy your stay obamanut2012 Yesterday #82
Sounds seriouhs (sic) Torchlight Yesterday #86
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #92
She had to know AncientOfDays Yesterday #2
"his private behavior" -- He's public-figure adjacent. Intractable Yesterday #3
So he's "outed" himself. What is he complaining about? CTyankee Yesterday #99
Exactly. Mariana 23 hrs ago #116
no quarter Shellback Squid Yesterday #4
"This is not about politics." J_William_Ryan Yesterday #5
So we do to him what they do? KT2000 Yesterday #7
Who is this "we" NJCher Yesterday #15
I'm actually not better than that, but this story is Stephen Miller Scrivener7 Yesterday #45
I have NO sympathy for these bozos GenThePerservering Yesterday #100
Better than what? Happy Hoosier Yesterday #72
I am not better that that. jrthin Yesterday #107
Does he read DU? H2O Man Yesterday #6
Who knows KT2000 Yesterday #8
We are a group of individuals. H2O Man Yesterday #23
PS H2O Man Yesterday #24
Yeah, I just don't see the big deal. It's his choice and it's not harmful. C Moon Yesterday #9
Hey, this is the best thing that's happened in the last month! I'm enjoying it! LeftInTX Yesterday #10
People who have no problem with cross-dressing are shrugging. pat_k Yesterday #11
This is along the lines of what I was thinking. B.See Yesterday #20
Yes, these are the same people who scream about drag queens. GoCubsGo Yesterday #58
Which is why I don't give a shit if Lindsey Graham displacedvermoter Yesterday #108
No. They are married. That makes him involved w/ her decades-long political activity. RockRaven Yesterday #12
It's the fake Christian poli-junkie Yesterday #13
It's the hypocrisy. hunter Yesterday #73
Nope. I couldn't care less what he likes to dress as Phoenix61 Yesterday #14
No, we can't JHB Yesterday #16
Yeah, my better angel flew away choie Yesterday #55
I'm with you KT2000, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #17
I hope in some aspect he feels a bit Billsdaughter Yesterday #18
Ya, like they all left Hunter Biden alone Pototan Yesterday #19
Sounds like they own and control you SomedayKindaLove Yesterday #71
No Sir (or Mam) Pototan Yesterday #74
I saw where a DUer called him a freak Skittles Yesterday #21
"freaky" sounds like a terms and conditions thing rampartd Yesterday #29
oh for sure it's a spectrum Skittles Yesterday #34
spectrum rampartd Yesterday #37
everyone is weird in their own way Skittles Yesterday #39
To me that's where the discussion has been crossing the line into kink shaming meadowlander Yesterday #30
I grew up in the 60's, freak has several different contexts... haele Yesterday #66
I just remember this, from ca. 1979: Wednesdays Yesterday #97
well said Skittles Yesterday #111
I think the focus is probably on kristi not him ecstatic Yesterday #22
The only ones I feel for are their 20-something kids. pnwmom Yesterday #25
They have that many kids? Wednesdays Yesterday #98
3 of them, all in their 20's. The youngest is 22. pnwmom 21 hrs ago #122
No, absolutely not Raine Yesterday #26
the husband knew that it was a demonsreation of rampartd Yesterday #32
He was "outed" so that the trans-phobic Lars39 Yesterday #27
He deserves approbrium for his hypocrisy. SunSeeker Yesterday #28
For my $ this pic is WAY more troubling SomedayKindaLove Yesterday #67
Exactly. With their ilk, it's "Liberty for me, but not for thee." SunSeeker Yesterday #75
Sorry but nope sfdennis1 Yesterday #31
Thank you for your kindness. I'm surprised, sickened, and saddened by most of the replies on this thread. n/t Mister Ed Yesterday #33
As am I MustLoveBeagles 20 hrs ago #126
The Word "Kind" is the Problem Roy Rolling Yesterday #35
I'm worried he may now end up like Cricket and the billy goat. eShirl Yesterday #36
A better hobby choice may have helped. Aussie105 Yesterday #38
We give no quarter to our enemy. Irish_Dem Yesterday #40
I don't care if the man uses balloons as sex toys. Irish_Dem Yesterday #41
I assume he's as bad as she is, but I do agree with you. And this article says Scrivener7 Yesterday #42
No. He married ICE Nazi Barbie, a horrific human being. He gets no pass. Fuck him and the tits he rode in on. Celerity Yesterday #43
Worst. Rodeo. Ever. Sympthsical Yesterday #44
Celebrate his choices WSHazel Yesterday #46
I agree. mainer Yesterday #47
Im not sure starting another thread on him is the best way to achieve that, but thanks for your concern? Blues Heron Yesterday #48
That would be nice EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #49
Nope Cherrycheeks Yesterday #50
I'm enjoying Kristi's pain and humiliation, not his. sop Yesterday #51
Nope. He chose to be married to a Nazi. bearsfootball516 Yesterday #52
My issue is with her not him. BlueKota Yesterday #53
To each its own............... Lovie777 Yesterday #54
I think the lion's-share of criticism is being directed at Ms. Noem. Torchlight Yesterday #56
I'm with you on this. yardwork Yesterday #57
I could care less about their kink purr-rat beauty Yesterday #59
I am sympathetic to Mr. Noem delisen Yesterday #60
Absolutely not! JustAnotherGen Yesterday #61
It's consensual and doesn't involve children. The man likes ginormous breasts. It is not as if he's Epstein or Trump. Solly Mack Yesterday #62
If you want to be kind please do. I have no relationshit with either of the creeps. Autumn Yesterday #63
I hope you vocally opposed the right's attacks on Dem spooky3 Yesterday #64
In 2016 Hillary was condemned for not having dumped Bill Zambero Yesterday #68
Why? Happy Hoosier Yesterday #69
Remember the video from when she was governor displacedvermoter Yesterday #70
The outing was apparently engineered by Stephen Miller, Ocelot II Yesterday #76
+1 dalton99a 19 hrs ago #136
Shirley you jest. NoRethugFriends Yesterday #77
Fuck Byron for not filing charges when that #itch killed the family pets. 58Sunliner Yesterday #78
Shirley you jest. NoRethugFriends Yesterday #80
I. Do. Not. Care. What. He. Wears. MineralMan Yesterday #83
No. gay texan Yesterday #84
Maybe we can all chip in to help him achieve his dream, 2500cc to start with thebigidea Yesterday #88
Cross dressing has a long tradition of comedic value MichMan Yesterday #89
Hubby said that he could have said, "I was drunk", "It was a prank" LeftInTX 21 hrs ago #121
It's not like he murdered a puppy in cold blood DBoon Yesterday #91
I don't care about his kinks xmas74 Yesterday #93
You hit the nail on the head. LuckyCharms Yesterday #95
Nah.... RT Atlanta Yesterday #94
While I agree that, in normal liberalhistorian Yesterday #96
No. nt GenThePerservering Yesterday #101
Honest question. RandySF Yesterday #102
Birds of a feather..... walkingman Yesterday #103
I think the laughter and scorn is mostly at Kristie Noem GenThePerservering Yesterday #104
No!!!! These are sanctimonious people jrthin Yesterday #105
We could FullySupportDems Yesterday #106
I don't like the demonizing of crossdressing at all orangecrush Yesterday #109
I don't think anyone here is demonizing crossdressing. Mariana 23 hrs ago #117
Understood orangecrush 20 hrs ago #124
It would be better for us to simply ignore this. karynnj Yesterday #110
No. If he married her, then he agrees with her values. edbermac Yesterday #112
I don't mind or care that he plays dressup. I dont know why Ilsa Yesterday #113
It is none of my damn business KentuckyWoman Yesterday #114
No JBTaurus83 23 hrs ago #115
Given what we've learned... Queso Delicioso 23 hrs ago #118
No Rob H. 23 hrs ago #119
It's hilarious, more fictional than real fiction. betsuni 23 hrs ago #120
"...the spokesperson for a balloon company..." MorbidButterflyTat 20 hrs ago #130
I could give a rip that he likes to cross-dress - it makes me like him more. kerry-is-my-prez 20 hrs ago #123
NO CAN DO. ENABLER IS AS ENABLER DOES. RIP, CRICKET. 🐕 ColoringFool 20 hrs ago #125
Would they be kind to me? pwb 20 hrs ago #127
Calling out hypocricy isn't kink shaming Ruby the Liberal 20 hrs ago #128
Your a kind person MustLoveBeagles 20 hrs ago #129
Thank you KT2000 20 hrs ago #133
People are rightfully angry with the RW MustLoveBeagles 19 hrs ago #137
No Keepthesoulalive 20 hrs ago #131
two words UpInArms 20 hrs ago #132
I don't know enough about him to Progressive dog 20 hrs ago #134
Hell No RainCaster 19 hrs ago #135
Reason why Blue Full Moon 18 hrs ago #138
Be kind? Nah. Refrain from kink-shaming him? Sure, okay. Iggo 18 hrs ago #139
Fuck no. What a silly question. BannonsLiver 55 min ago #140
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