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hamsterjill

(17,640 posts)
22. Women need to be empowered to fight back.
Tue Apr 14, 2026, 05:39 PM
13 hrs ago

And not be afraid of making a scene. I think many of us of a certain age learned to slap the shit out of a male out of line, knee to the groin and elbow to the nose.

Who taught me? My dad.

Not sure I could pull it off any more, but it gave me confidence when I was young to know that I could fight back if necessary. Confidence is important since attackers are less likely to go after women who look self-assured.

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Most sexual assaults are not stranger abductions. yardwork 14 hrs ago #1
Yes, taught to be nice is abig one. Figarosmom 14 hrs ago #4
Exactly! yardwork 14 hrs ago #5
You will notice that I did not limit my OP to sexual assaults only. niyad 13 hrs ago #20
Yes more women are abused by someone thwy trust Lifeafter70 12 hrs ago #24
Times change and we live in a world of privacy violations jfz9580m 9 hrs ago #38
When my daughter was 12 Figarosmom 14 hrs ago #2
Brava! Congrats to her! You must be very proud of her! SheltieLover 14 hrs ago #6
Sure am!😊 Figarosmom 14 hrs ago #13
Excellent! I wish all parents did this. niyad 13 hrs ago #19
Same here. My daughter was a black belt at age 13. Irish_Dem 12 hrs ago #26
Yeah funny how that works, the politeness factor. Figarosmom 9 hrs ago #36
I taught taekwondo to children and adults oberle 12 hrs ago #29
I had friends that trained Figarosmom 9 hrs ago #35
Thank you for all that you have done. niyad 9 hrs ago #37
Worry more about partners, "friends," and creepy bosses, Ocelot II 14 hrs ago #3
Yes! SheltieLover 14 hrs ago #7
You will notice that I did not limit my OP to sexual assaults only. niyad 13 hrs ago #21
I don't remember what SING stands for LearnedHand 14 hrs ago #8
I think it's Solar plexus, Insole, Nose, Groin EdmondDantes_ 14 hrs ago #11
Thanks! LearnedHand 14 hrs ago #12
Watch Miss Congeniality! MorbidButterflyTat 12 hrs ago #25
That's where i first learned about it lol LearnedHand 10 hrs ago #33
I like that dye idea, like in money robbed from a bank EdmondDantes_ 14 hrs ago #9
But Swalwell knew what was right and wrong JI7 13 hrs ago #15
Not enough to not be an abuser EdmondDantes_ 13 hrs ago #16
Teaching men and boys not to be abusers is great. How long is that niyad 13 hrs ago #18
My fantasy is that men are barred from owning any weapon. Irish_Dem 12 hrs ago #27
Sadly, the way things are going in this misogynist, patriarchal niyad 12 hrs ago #28
Yes women's rights are going by the wayside. Irish_Dem 12 hrs ago #30
A man that SA women I_UndergroundPanther 8 hrs ago #42
My point is I don't think simply giving women tools is enough EdmondDantes_ 12 hrs ago #31
All very interesting. But PLEASE notice that I specifically mentioned niyad 12 hrs ago #32
cell phones. mopinko 14 hrs ago #10
The biggest threats are those we know and agree to see JI7 14 hrs ago #14
??? niyad 13 hrs ago #17
Women need to be empowered to fight back. hamsterjill 13 hrs ago #22
Looking self-assured and aware certainly helps. In a similar discussion niyad 12 hrs ago #23
If you find yourself in a bad situation, wnylib 10 hrs ago #34
Yes, trust your instincts! I am so very glad that you did exactly that, niyad 9 hrs ago #39
Yikes 😳 MustLoveBeagles 9 hrs ago #40
So am I. It seems even scarier to me now that I'm older and wnylib 8 hrs ago #41
Good for you! YES, always trust gut instinct! SheltieLover 40 min ago #43
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