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summer_in_TX

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64. So much of the practices necessary for democracy has been lost over the last 30 years.
Wed Apr 15, 2026, 12:41 AM
1 hr ago

Key habits and values are essential to democracy. If we are ever to have a democracy again, we need to find a way to regain them: the willingness to give others the benefit of the doubt, to be curious about the person and be willing to look for what has shaped their lives, and to find connections where we can. Another one that used to be relatively widespread and is now on the ropes is tolerance of differences.

My husband shared a quote from a NYT opinion piece by Ezra Klein that he wrote recently:

“Conversation is not a reward to be bestowed on those with whom we agree; it’s a necessary habit in a democracy. The point is not to find agreement so much as to deepen understanding. To talk with others is to believe in the possibility of change — theirs and your own. Whether you like everything that someone has said should be severed from the question of whether that person is worth talking to.”


What are some of the other necessary habits in a democracy?

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Ultra Maga Co-Worker [View all] lame54 14 hrs ago OP
Tell them from me... Moostache 14 hrs ago #1
THIS THIS THIS johnnyfins 14 hrs ago #2
Would rather snowybirdie 13 hrs ago #12
in an ideal world yes pimpbot 12 hrs ago #22
They are getting worried now. hadEnuf 2 hrs ago #61
Saw a similar tweet the other day. krkaufman 12 min ago #66
They maybe dumping Trump, but they'll never come over to our side. CanonRay 11 hrs ago #32
I agree LPBBEAR 12 hrs ago #23
Worst possible reaction and just contributes to the problem. Climate Crusader 12 hrs ago #29
We have spent some 40+ years reaching out to them (in all their various iterations), mwmisses4289 12 hrs ago #31
Different side. Climate Crusader 11 hrs ago #35
Amen!!! Moostache 11 hrs ago #37
Exactly mercuryblues 6 hrs ago #58
It's unclear from the OP Wednesdays 9 hrs ago #46
As the song says... "This could be the start of something big" 🤞 Tim S 14 hrs ago #3
One of my MAGA high school classmates Ms. Toad 13 hrs ago #4
"I realise now what I did wrong, and am changing" GenThePerservering 13 hrs ago #5
yup ForgedCrank 13 hrs ago #9
As if they're going to vote D dpibel 13 hrs ago #14
best we can hope for pimpbot 12 hrs ago #24
No, they won't vote D.. thomski64 12 hrs ago #27
Yes, that would be great dpibel 12 hrs ago #28
That's the same message sent to Dems MorbidButterflyTat 7 hrs ago #56
Arbitrary? dpibel 2 hrs ago #62
that is not it at ALL Skittles 2 hrs ago #63
.. BlueWaveNeverEnd 13 hrs ago #6
One at a time. I welcome them ALL. It's the only way we "Orban" this thing. Maru Kitteh 13 hrs ago #7
Especially when our authoritarian government will pull out all stops to disenfranchise and suppress the vote Martin Eden 11 hrs ago #39
Only Rapists Support Rapists. Only Nazis Support Nazis. Once A Rapist Always A Rapist. Once A Nazi Always A Nazi. MayReasonRule 13 hrs ago #8
The cult slowly awakens!!! nt City Lights 13 hrs ago #10
The 3 loud mouth dumpsters I know have been quiet & the one removed his tRump bumper stickers. AnotherMother4Peace 13 hrs ago #11
It's hard to admit you've been a fool, to be fair Easterncedar 13 hrs ago #13
There's always the chance that the bumper stickers were removed by his wife and kids FakeNoose 13 hrs ago #15
He is a she and if we didn't talk politics was really nice Lifeafter70 12 hrs ago #30
Not the ones here. They're full steam ahead with tRump still. They are enamored with what he's doing ffr 13 hrs ago #16
Come out, come out where ever you are! BidenRocks 12 hrs ago #17
And years from now they will probably also deny ever supporting Trump in the first place. cstanleytech 12 hrs ago #18
Just like the man himself lame54 12 hrs ago #21
The true believers are just like Trump, they'll double down on their stupidity. dem4decades 12 hrs ago #19
How I handle visitors, delivery drivers who might be Trump supporters. Really LiberalArkie 12 hrs ago #20
It looks like you've electrified the signs, so if they attempt to Abolishinist 7 hrs ago #54
The wire goes to a camera up above the signs... even better LiberalArkie 7 hrs ago #55
Did they remove it on their own initiative? JustABozoOnThisBus 12 hrs ago #25
On their own lame54 12 hrs ago #26
You Can't Undo Being A Nazi Anymore Than One Can Undo Being A Rapist MayReasonRule 11 hrs ago #33
Doesn't mean he's changed his attitudes. Demobrat 11 hrs ago #34
She never really bragged when talking with her Lifeafter70 11 hrs ago #36
There is a fairly large demographic that can vote either way somsai 11 hrs ago #38
And yet they were so smug after the 2024 election not fooled 11 hrs ago #40
An older, rabid-MAGA couple who watches our dog has taken down all their paraphernalia too Native 11 hrs ago #41
The stain of MAGA will NEVER Miguelito Loveless 11 hrs ago #42
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m 10 hrs ago #43
The stages of MAGA: Glaisne 10 hrs ago #44
Well, it's a start. Wednesdays 9 hrs ago #45
I imagine it would be a big victory for us - if they just Ars Longa 9 hrs ago #48
Yup. I'll take it. nt Wednesdays 8 hrs ago #49
they can still go fuck themselves Skittles 9 hrs ago #47
Tell him it's time to grab a fire extinguisher proud patriot 8 hrs ago #50
How does one distinguish an "ultra" Maga from the garden variety? Martin68 8 hrs ago #51
One of the stickers read... lame54 7 hrs ago #53
That's just show-off. They are all ultra morons and proud of it. Martin68 4 hrs ago #60
I love it when MAGA maniacs do stuff like this! ShazzieB 8 hrs ago #52
It would've been nice if Democrats had PUSHED BACK on Trump dubbing himself the peace candidate... biocube 6 hrs ago #57
Probably took all of it off MW67 5 hrs ago #59
So much of the practices necessary for democracy has been lost over the last 30 years. summer_in_TX 1 hr ago #64
Almost wish you could slap 'em back on. n/t krkaufman 14 min ago #65
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