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marble falls

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51. Sex crimes against children and women are the dirtiest secrets in this nation. ...

Wed Apr 15, 2026, 10:52 AM

13 hrs ago

... three out of the first four girlfriends I had starting in junior high school were molested by their fathers, my first wife was, also and it totally ruined her life.

My first girlfriend and her two sisters were raped by their father - a Summit County Sheriff's Deputy. When she went to her Baptist minister for counseling, he told her to submit to her father.

I would not be a bit surprised if 80% of women in this country have been sexually assaulted in some way at least once in their lives. It was exactly why I talked my youngest out of joining the Navy/applying for the Academy.

I am very careful how I approach women and children: I look just like the "enemy".

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I wish to state something about sex crimes: [View all] PCIntern Tuesday OP

Yup. I hear you. As a woman, I have my own stories. Joinfortmill Tuesday #1

Same ananda Tuesday #8

Me too. OMGWTF Tuesday #18

WTF is wrong with men? Disaffected Tuesday #22

Culture has just as much to do with it blubunyip Tuesday #42

This leads to the nature or nurture debate. Disaffected 23 hrs ago #44

Imho, women can cut their losses by simply avoiding athletes. Some have taken allegorical oracle 15 hrs ago #49

Then there's the "nice guys," some wearing spectacles, smart, bookish, well-mannered... Alice B. 13 hrs ago #58

While I agree to a point... radical noodle 12 hrs ago #59

"Go for the guy wearing spectacles." TheProle 8 hrs ago #67

Prehistoric times? "Cave-man marriage"--- knock the woman over the head with a club, Jack Valentino Tuesday #43

You might be projecting modern norms on prehistory. Buzz cook 10 hrs ago #63

Yeah, who really knows? Disaffected 9 hrs ago #66

Same here. highplainsdem Tuesday #26

It was prevalent throughout the sixties and seventies too. Arthur_Frain Tuesday #2

This was ongoing from the 1920''s through the 1990's and likely beyond there. PCIntern Tuesday #4

It was ongoing through all of history and pre-history. It just wasn't talked about. Or the victim was blamed. raccoon 13 hrs ago #55

I'm sorry that happened to you. And also if it ruins someone's life it's not necessarily because they "let" it. WhiskeyGrinder Tuesday #5

That's exactly what the "Me, Too" movement was trying to raise awareness of. Diamond_Dog Tuesday #3

I never got that in fertility clinics Figarosmom Tuesday #6

The most graphic testimony in the GJ report PCIntern Tuesday #7

Assaulted by gay bashers? N/t Figarosmom Tuesday #9

Oh no... PCIntern Tuesday #10

I feel sick... AloeVera Tuesday #27

Geez.. Figarosmom Tuesday #37

OMG 😳 MustLoveBeagles 9 hrs ago #64

Collection at home was an option we used to create my daughter Soul_of_Wit Tuesday #24

I've always said that it's up to parents to inform their teenage children BEFORE it happens to them FakeNoose Tuesday #11

Absolutely... PCIntern Tuesday #12

And then there are those parents who are shit. usedtobedemgurl Tuesday #16

That's ridiculous. AZ8theist Tuesday #20

Thank you. usedtobedemgurl Tuesday #21

You're welcome. AZ8theist Tuesday #32

I'm an old lady now, but... Trueblue Texan Tuesday #39

I'm sorry 😞 MustLoveBeagles 9 hrs ago #65

And sadly that is part of the problem Lifeafter70 Tuesday #33

And no matter the warnings, it can and does still happen. 1WorldHope Tuesday #15

From the epstein files it sounds like many of the parents Figarosmom Tuesday #38

Teenage? Ms. Toad Tuesday #41

I still have a vivid memory of a friend and I being accosted by some creep Disaffected 23 hrs ago #45

Twice, in the 60s, adult males tried lure me within their reach. enigmania Tuesday #13

So, is this an American thing? Is it a European thing 1WorldHope Tuesday #14

Pedophilia knows no borders.. whathehell Tuesday #29

It turns out that Grimm's fairy tales had a real purpose it seems. 1WorldHope Tuesday #31

We largely read sanitized versions of those dsc 16 hrs ago #47

It is a human thing. Disaffected 23 hrs ago #46

If they Rebl2 Tuesday #17

Pretty revolting, isn't it? PCIntern Tuesday #19

Exactly MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #23

Report them MorbidButterflyTat Tuesday #25

And they're helping those freak f*cks have children! Trueblue Texan Tuesday #40

This exists and always existed because it has been allowed to exist Bluestocking Tuesday #28

For many years I taught women's self defense oberle Tuesday #30

Since I was in high school (late 60s) I have wondered: Why do they teach boys wrestling, but not girls? Attilatheblond 13 hrs ago #52

"which include Boy Scout and Girl Scout publications" ??? progressoid Tuesday #34

Same Sympthsical 13 hrs ago #54

I saw it myself as a patient PCIntern 5 hrs ago #70

Re fertility clinics Tasmanian Devil Tuesday #35

References? PCIntern Tuesday #36

While not even close to this level dsc 16 hrs ago #48

I'm not sure these are great examples. BlueTsunami2018 7 hrs ago #68

my first two jobs at age 16 - TalenaGor 14 hrs ago #50

When I was in college I had a summer job with a veterinarian Wicked Blue 12 hrs ago #60

as an HR director, this chaps my ass TalenaGor 5 hrs ago #71

Sex crimes against children and women are the dirtiest secrets in this nation. ... marble falls 13 hrs ago #51

You are right on the money PCIntern 13 hrs ago #53

found a lot of stuff about the boyscouts and girlscouts. This one caught my eye for anyone who wants "sources" ... marble falls 13 hrs ago #57

I was not allowed to join PCIntern 12 hrs ago #62

I wouldn't be surprised if it was 100%. raccoon 13 hrs ago #56

Me, either. marble falls 12 hrs ago #61

Institutionalized sex trafficking has been going on for TexasBushwhacker 7 hrs ago #69