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Trueblue Texan

(4,605 posts)
63. I've had to say this to several friends in recent months.
Sat May 16, 2026, 05:09 PM
19 hrs ago

It seems to be a tough concept for them, so really pay close attention and take these words seriously, please!

Surgery SAPS your energy and healing takes even more energy, and the older we are, the longer the recovery. So if you're only 2 months out from surgery, and still exhausted, I'd say you're right on schedule, especially for the type of surgery you had and especially at 82 years old!

I'm so glad you got such great news--I'm THRILLED for you. I know recovery can be discouraging--it just takes as long as it takes--but if you are up and about and doing at least some of what you used to do, you are probably doing fine. Everyone heals at a different rate, but it sounds like you're doing much better than lots of folks who've been through the same type of challenges you've been through. I look forward to the day when you drop by DU and tell us you don't have time to chat because you're too busy doing what you love. In the meantime, take lots of naps--resting conserves energy that can be used to further healing. Take a deep breath and relax. You're headed the right direction!

Have a fabulous Saturday!

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Great news malaise Yesterday #1
Time is moving too fast for all of us Boomers. I'll livetohike Yesterday #2
Dearest CaPeggy Niagara Yesterday #3
Congratulations, CaliforniaPeggy! Totally Tunsie Yesterday #4
Wonderful pathology report. spanone Yesterday #5
You have been through a lot, Peggy! SheltieLover Yesterday #6
Great news! Swede Yesterday #7
Good to hear they got it all. sinkingfeeling Yesterday #8
Excellent news on the cancer being fully removed! Solly Mack Yesterday #9
Feel safe, rest and get better. BootinUp Yesterday #10
Six hours is rough Nigrum Cattus Yesterday #11
One of the earliest things I remember learning in nursing school... 3catwoman3 Yesterday #12
I waa wondering about that, how cleanly the cancer came out... NNadir Yesterday #13
Really great news CaliforniaPeggy! bsiebs Yesterday #14
I find the hardest part after surgery is to be patient during recovery. HeartsCanHope Yesterday #15
Your new job is recovery Marthe48 Yesterday #16
The best news, Peggy . . . peggysue2 Yesterday #17
I'm glad to hear they got it all out :) Dave says Yesterday #18
"the cancer was removed in its entirety" is the absolute BEST news. I think you LoisB Yesterday #19
Give yourself some grace. hamsterjill Yesterday #20
Good news and you are doing great! cksmithy Yesterday #21
Wonderful news. Enjoy living.... surfered Yesterday #22
Oh dear Peggy Grim Chieftain Yesterday #23
I'm so glad they got it all! cate94 Yesterday #24
You are doing great. Keep it up. multigraincracker Yesterday #25
Continued healing. Tommy Carcetti Yesterday #26
Every day is a good day Wild blueberry Yesterday #27
Be kind to yourself. Nevilledog Yesterday #28
That is really great news, Peggy! kentuck Yesterday #29
My dear Ms Peggy. It is such good news that the surgeon got it all, niyad Yesterday #30
Peggy, I so get every word of your OP. I'm with Ninga Yesterday #31
It does seem longer than two months to me. LeftInTX Yesterday #32
There were lots and lots of prayers going out for you. lamp_shade Yesterday #33
That's wonderful news CP, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #34
You are an amazingly strong woman... Spazito 23 hrs ago #35
Happy for you people 23 hrs ago #36
We were on Pins and Needles for those early days IbogaProject 23 hrs ago #37
So happy to see this.. mountain grammy 23 hrs ago #38
Glad to hear you're doing OK. edbermac 23 hrs ago #39
So happy to hear angrychair 23 hrs ago #40
Yeah, recovery after cancer surgery is like that. mwmisses4289 23 hrs ago #41
Perfect, California Peggy... stay healthy and positive as always about your health! hlthe2b 23 hrs ago #42
Smiles BaronChocula 23 hrs ago #43
I typed enough pathology reports to recognize that this is very good news....often with deep emotion for the patient joanbarnes 23 hrs ago #44
I'm so happy for you, Peggy! karin_sj 23 hrs ago #45
Peggy, that's fabulous news that they got all the cancer! I am sorry to hear that the recovery has been highplainsdem 22 hrs ago #46
Such wonderful news! bif 22 hrs ago #47
awesome, Ms. Pegster Skittles 22 hrs ago #48
Congratulations! DelMar dem 22 hrs ago #49
This si great news! Have the doctors cleared you ... JustABozoOnThisBus 22 hrs ago #50
Of course they have! CaliforniaPeggy 22 hrs ago #51
OMG, prayers answered on that pathology report! :D Beartracks 22 hrs ago #52
We are so happy you're with us! Nt spooky3 22 hrs ago #53
I'm glad the cancer was completely removed senseandsensibility 21 hrs ago #54
Well, Peggy, ... A successful surgery with a long recovery time is SO much better.... 70sEraVet 21 hrs ago #55
Wow! There's a lot to unpack in that message. debsy 21 hrs ago #56
Coming up on a year since my wife's diagnosis. Old Crank 21 hrs ago #57
The good news, CP, you're are here now and recovering everyday. Buddyzbuddy 21 hrs ago #58
You are bravely facing rehabilitation with loads of caring energy coming from us every day. Facing the trauma of a KitFox 21 hrs ago #59
I can relate having been through a long recovery from surgery myself. The anxiety of it all, GoodRaisin 21 hrs ago #60
Keep on truckin' n/t malthaussen 20 hrs ago #61
Excellent News ProfessorGAC 20 hrs ago #62
I've had to say this to several friends in recent months. Trueblue Texan 19 hrs ago #63
You have nailed my situation perfectly, my dear Trueblue Texan! Thanks so much! CaliforniaPeggy 19 hrs ago #64
You are such a lovely human being California Peggy. 1WorldHope 18 hrs ago #65
So glad to hear the pathology report showed they had gotten it all!!! woodsprite 18 hrs ago #66
Dearest Calif. Peg ,,, oldsoldierfadingfast 17 hrs ago #67
God Speed Peggy! n/t Jacson6 16 hrs ago #68
Wonderful popsdenver 16 hrs ago #69
good pathology news! Kali 15 hrs ago #70
Cancer is so scary! Congratulations on your recovery Dan 15 hrs ago #71
Give yourself time to heal MustLoveBeagles 14 hrs ago #72
Hallelujah, dear Peggy! summer_in_TX 13 hrs ago #73
Good to hear padfun 13 hrs ago #74
Keep on truckin' mama BeneteauBum 12 hrs ago #75
If asked canetoad 12 hrs ago #76
Together we are more than the sum of us an idividuals. DU has certainly made a difference in my recoveries. marble falls 12 hrs ago #77
Sending you hugs! FM123 12 hrs ago #78
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m 6 hrs ago #79
I am really happy for you Peggy.nt jfz9580m 5 hrs ago #80
Sit yerself down and stick around for a while! DFW 4 hrs ago #81
Very good to hear, m'dear! Maeve 4 hrs ago #82
Please continue to update, kpete 3 hrs ago #83
Prayers and Kindest Regards topcelts 1 hr ago #84
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