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30. My mom sold the house in 1985, and passed away in 1988.

Sun Sep 21, 2025, 05:36 PM

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Since we cleaned out the house in ‘85, I’ve only been back once. I had to attend a hearing in about 1996. I got there early, and drove down Main Street, past my best friend’s house, went by the high school, and then stopped by my old house.

I got out of the car, and took some pictures. The house now had air conditioning, the back door had been removed, and a huge deck took up much of the back yard. I haven’t been back since, and wouldn’t have gone then if I hadn’t had to.

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