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[Doctor_J]

33. Yeah, that seems like a decent rule of thumb.

I am old and monogamous and have been as such for decades (monogamous, not old). In fact I have dropped a couple of friends due to their cheating on their wives, who were also friends. I also knew a HS teacher/coach who was a serial dater of his former students. He would usually wait until they were 2 years removed from HS to date them (around 20-21). He was still doing this well into his 40's. I thought that was pretty, er, unseemly, and talked to each of my daughters about him when they were attending that HS. So it's not my style, but being somewhat of a keep-to-myself person (actually quite straight-laced in my own life - liberal when it comes to other's lives) I figured, well, it's his thing, and everyone is of the age of consent, so...?

I didn't anticipate the onslaught from the other group, and can't fathom what this has to do with MRA, but like I say I am pretty open-minded wrt what other do with their private lives.

Apparently I have opened myself up to accusations of perviness just by bring up the subject of May-December lust (or March-October). C'est la guerre