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Upton

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8. I was brought up to be polite..

Reply to Kaleva (Original post)

Mon Jun 4, 2012, 08:05 AM

Jun 2012

I always open doors for women and things..I enjoy doing it and most women respond with a smile and a thank you. However, there is a certain percentage of women who will give me a look like I just killed their dog.

I guess they think I'm being sexist? I don't even know..

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Behaviour towards women [View all] Kaleva Jun 2012 OP

Depends on who you ask. Behind the Aegis Jun 2012 #1

When I was younger, I'd address men who were in poition of authority... Kaleva Jun 2012 #2

I address all men as "Sir" is they are older or a position of authority. Behind the Aegis Jun 2012 #3

Probably it's because the way I raised. Kaleva Jun 2012 #4

Well, you asked earlier if it was sexist. Behind the Aegis Jun 2012 #5

This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #13

Me too! Behind the Aegis Jun 2012 #14

It makes me feel knighted! n/t Gore1FL Jun 2012 #18

Is there a third category? caseymoz Jun 2012 #6

Good manners would extend to all people, men and women. jp11 Jun 2012 #7

I was brought up to be polite.. Upton Jun 2012 #8

The two aren't mutually exclusive. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2012 #9

I kinda think you should do those things for anyone 4th law of robotics Jun 2012 #10

Good manners libodem Jun 2012 #11

This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #12

I drive but don't get to pick the music or handle the temp. controls. Kaleva Jun 2012 #15

If momma ain't happy, nobody's happy? lumberjack_jeff Jun 2012 #16

It's interesting when she and her daughter go somewhere. Kaleva Jun 2012 #17

I do those things to everyone much of the time. n/t Gore1FL Jun 2012 #19