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Bayard

(27,129 posts)
46. I really feel for you, Jill
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 11:42 PM
Jun 2025

I've lost so many fur kids of all species over the years, and it never, ever, gets any easier. I can't even imagine enduring it as many times as you have.

Elijah knew you loved him, and it eased his passing. You do good work, and I admire you for it.

Take care of yourself and your other kiddos. There's so much craziness now, sometimes you have to actively go look for some good to get away from it all. Go for a walk, dig in your garden, read a good book, give some scritchies to a deserving little soul.

Big hugs to you.

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I'm.... JoeOtterbein Jun 2025 #1
Thank you, Joe. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #22
So sorry for your loss LatteLady Jun 2025 #2
Thank you, LatteLady. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #23
Sail on, Elijah Ponietz Jun 2025 #3
Thank you, Ponietz. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #24
🕯️ blm Jun 2025 #4
Thank you, blm. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #25
I'm so sorry, hamsterjill. umroman Jun 2025 #5
Thank you very much, umroman. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #26
I'm truly sorry. Even excellent vets can't save them all. sinkingfeeling Jun 2025 #6
They can't, sinkingfeeling. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #27
There are no words at a time like this..... AltairIV Jun 2025 #7
Thank you, AltairIV. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #28
I'm hoping to be reunited with the dogs (one at a time) I've had in my life. surfered Jun 2025 #8
It has to be! hamsterjill Jun 2025 #29
I am so sorry! You are doing the most loving thing for your baby Elijah CousinIT Jun 2025 #9
Thank you, Cousin IT. I am struck by your comment as to taking on their suffering. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #30
In our family, we call this most difficult and compassionate of decisions... 3catwoman3 Jun 2025 #10
Oh, yes, 3catwoman3. It s always hard hamsterjill Jun 2025 #31
Im so sorry! I learned long ago that part of my animal care dutiess was to be Karadeniz Jun 2025 #11
Thank you, Karadeniz. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #32
so, so very sorry stillcool Jun 2025 #12
Thank you, stillcool. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #33
As someone that lost his dear sweet dog a few months ago, i am sorry for your pain. dem4decades Jun 2025 #13
I am sorry for your loss, dem4decades. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #34
I'm so sorry for you loss hamsterjill, JMCKUSICK Jun 2025 #14
Appreciate that very much, John. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #35
Lady Bast, please take Your Elijah gently home in Your loving arms, and niyad Jun 2025 #15
Thank you, niyad. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #37
So sorry. Everything seems so hopeless now. Walleye Jun 2025 #16
Thank you, Walleye. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #38
My heart breaks for you! NCgayguy Jun 2025 #17
Oh, NCgayguy - your post made me cry in a good way. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #40
I thought about you two all day! NCgayguy Jun 2025 #51
My condolences about your friend Nigrum Cattus Jun 2025 #18
Thank you, Nigrum. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #41
Dear hamsterjill, I am so sorry for your loss. MIButterfly Jun 2025 #19
Thank you, MIButterfly. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #42
I'm so sorry for your loss and heartache. femmedem Jun 2025 #20
Thank you, femmedem. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #43
It's been a long day... hamsterjill Jun 2025 #21
Elijah would have been proud to know what you've written here. slightlv Jun 2025 #48
THANK YOU for the rescue work you do. This is the work of angels. CousinIT Jun 2025 #52
That truly sucks. OAITW r.2.0 Jun 2025 #36
The are most definitely part of the family!!!! hamsterjill Jun 2025 #44
So sorry! Peaceful passage, Elijah... Ocelot II Jun 2025 #39
Thank you, Ocelot II. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #45
I really feel for you, Jill Bayard Jun 2025 #46
Thank you so much, Bayard. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #47
It's so hard but you're in the good company with those of us who know the pain you're feeling now Deuxcents Jun 2025 #49
Deepest condolences, Jill SheltieLover Jun 2025 #50
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Jun 2025 #53
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