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TreasonousBastard

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3. I'm going to have to read the book, or...
Wed Feb 22, 2012, 05:30 PM
Feb 2012

at least see the movie-- these little eruptions over it are getting interesting. I've mentioned in the past that reviews and comments over sensitive topics often tell more about the reviewer than the reviewed, and this work seems like no exception.

Even though I haven't read the book, I do know a little about the situation-- my grandmother was a very white, fairly wealthy, Lincoln Republican in rural Maryland who hired "darkies" to work around the house. Although she never exhibited any of the racial hatred some of the neighbors had, she was still the product of several centuries of tradition and social conditioning. When she fought the Klan and integrated her church because her employees worshiped the same god she did, there was little thought that those employees might become "closer" family and she still talked of everyone having their place.

I could go on talking about the great works they did, and the people they helped, but I'll just say August and Edith were two of the finest people I have ever had the privilege to know. There was, however, that old Southern part of them that while far ahead of many of their neighbors would leave us aghast nowadays.

Relations between the races were so complex back then that I never hope to understand them. I suspect anyone talking about it is just one of the blind men with the elephant-- very well understood, but only of one part.

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Intersectionality in Movies: The Help [View all] obamanut2012 Feb 2012 OP
Interesting review, and I agree that the complete absence of the male was troubling Warpy Feb 2012 #1
I did like how some of the control and power was transferred to obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #4
Are you gonna make me watch this movie? justiceischeap Feb 2012 #2
Watch it for Viola Davis, Octavia Spencer, and Jessica Chastain obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #5
I'm going to have to read the book, or... TreasonousBastard Feb 2012 #3
VERY interesting! obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #6
The book is well written and an interesting read Warpy Feb 2012 #7
I read the book and disliked it so much I avoided the movie. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #8
The scary thing is, she thinks it's wonderful and all civil roghtsie obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #9
My take on it. Neoma Feb 2012 #10
If you want to better understand the perspective, you might try reading more written from it. laconicsax Feb 2012 #11
There's a lot to unpack there. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #12
And also reactions from Southern whites knowing she was being crazy racist obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #13
Wow, I never thought about that. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #14
You didn't threadjack at all obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #15
Not having read the book or seen the movie, I still have an opinion/question justiceischeap Feb 2012 #16
I think they saw $$$$$ and didn't care obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #17
I'll try to watch it over the weekend. justiceischeap Feb 2012 #18
It's old attitudes that are passed on. Neoma Feb 2012 #20
you're kidding right? Most white people don't come from priveleged backgrounds. Just like most Tunkamerica Feb 2012 #25
I was explaining exactly that... Neoma Feb 2012 #26
you implied through your language that not all but most were rich. Tunkamerica Feb 2012 #31
As I said in explanation: Neoma Feb 2012 #32
I never said they did obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #27
Meh, I was verging off topic. Neoma Feb 2012 #28
As I recall history, the ladder of inequality went something like this: justiceischeap Feb 2012 #29
Yep. Neoma Feb 2012 #30
You forgot Italians and Chinese immigrants Tx4obama Feb 2012 #35
Wow there are so many great posts in this thread Catherina Feb 2012 #19
Therein lies the problem. Neoma Feb 2012 #21
I knew about the lawsuit, which shows what a poser Stockett was obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #23
As history, the movie clearly fails. mistertrickster Feb 2012 #22
Skeeter's maid's name was Constantine obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #24
I did not like the movie JustAnotherGen Feb 2012 #33
You know...you've made me rethink my enjoyment of the book. ScreamingMeemie Feb 2012 #34
"Why now?" Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #36
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