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Jack Valentino

(5,348 posts)
36. That is absolutely NOT what Platner said !!!
Mon Jun 8, 2026, 11:27 PM
Jun 8

you: "women who get drunk deserve to get raped?"

ME and Graham Platner: NO, but if you get so drunk in public that you are incapacitated,
it does increase the chances that such an attack could happen, when you can't defend yourself against it--
and that part of it is on YOU, if you rendered yourself incapable of self-defense in public--
but in no way excuses the male who raped you!

"Maine U.S. Senate candidate Graham Platner made disturbing comments about sexual assault victims in Reddit posts that were deleted shortly before he launched his campaign — saying assault victims should “just take some responsibility for themselves” to avoid attacks and “act like an adult for f–cks sake.” He said people should avoid alcohol so they don’t end up in a “compromising situation” and downplayed the challenges servicemembers face in reporting sexual assault. " https://emilyslist.org/sound-the-alarm/sound-the-alarm-graham-platner-says-sexual-assault-victims-should-take-some-responsibility-in-now-deleted-reddit-posts/

Seems like pretty common-sense advice to EVERY woman ANYWHERE--- DON'T get so drunk in public that you make yourself vulnerable to sexual assault!--- That IN NO WAY is a DEFENSE of RAPISTS who would take advantage of the situation, nor did he offer anything that could reasonably be judged as such!--- it was advice to women to be the first to take care of themselves, because male predators are OUT THERE--- and as someone who has admitted problems with alcohol, he knew what he was talking about!


I have seen what he was talking about, personally--- I was a taxi driver in East Lansing, Michigan, serving a lot of M.S.U. students before and after bar closings on Friday and Saturday nights... One night I was at a corner waiting for a traffic-light change, and some people shoved a very drunk girl into my back-seat, without my permission, and she could barely give me a destination... By the time I drove there, only a very few blocks away, she was completely passed out and I could not wake her up to exit my taxi at her residence... She was very young, attractive and barely dressed in some tiny halter top--- and the Devil told me "you could do anything with her that you want, and then toss her out onto her front lawn"...

Well, luckily for her I was not that guy, and I was very concerned about alcohol poisoning being a threat to her very life, so I drove her back to a point where I knew there would be police, and then got blocked in by police cars and an ambulance---costing me about an hour which I had to pay for, on one of the busiest nights of the week, and I didn't get paid for that ride, either--- before I was finally able to leave, they had succeeded in beginning to revive her, and she was responding to them verbally--- to which I felt relieved.

I hope she learned some kind of lesson from that night, and I am still glad that my taxi was the one she was shoved into,
even though it cost me money...... because I presume she came to no physical harm that night,
other than what was self-inflicted, but I can't presume what might have happened if she had been
shoved into the back-seat of any other taxi driver's car....


What I got from Platner's comments about female public drunkeness,
was that women need to be the 'first line of defense' for their own sake---
but not that they were 'to blame' if they failed in that,
or that any rapist was in any way 'excused' for taking advantage of the situation....

He probably worded his opinions poorly, possibly because he was drunk himself
at the time he posted them, but I think his advice was totally sound...

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Well, here's a clip (YouTube short) DinahMoeHum Jun 8 #1
I read some of the comments and now I is dummer. progressoid Jun 8 #12
Sorry, but most people don't know there's a 'b' in dum. Abolishinist Jun 8 #34
Ah, thank you progressoid Jun 8 #37
Thanks orangecrush Jun 8 #15
Platner is not incorrect dalton99a Jun 8 #2
He is and it is unacceptable FHRRK1 Jun 8 #18
Explain please. mr715 Jun 8 #19
Hmmm FHRRK1 Jun 8 #21
I don't know my brain completely zapped when reading your post mr715 Jun 8 #22
Succinct and accurate. -misanthroptimist Jun 8 #3
Folks were warned about Fetterman. N/T lapucelle Jun 8 #4
Yup. sheshe2 Jun 8 #13
Yes they were! Nixie Jun 8 #23
He isn't wrong MustLoveBeagles Jun 8 #5
He's got my vote! no_hypocrisy Jun 8 #6
... orangecrush Jun 8 #16
Oh boy! peggysue2 Jun 8 #7
Fetterman is mad because platner doesn't put Israel first questionseverything Jun 8 #25
I liked it better when was talking Medicare For All leftstreet Jun 8 #8
If the shoe fits...nt City Lights Jun 8 #9
If the sweat suit fits orangecrush Jun 8 #17
Well done. mr715 Jun 8 #20
Thanks orangecrush Jun 8 #32
I think he's smart to differentiate himself from Fetterman FakeNoose Jun 8 #10
Fetterman polls so low in his own state Johonny Jun 8 #11
Fucking good. No need to mince words. Fetterman no longer deserves respect from this party, and if anything, he seems Karasu Jun 8 #14
This is the same Platner who has an SS tattoo and said... nycbos Jun 8 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author AloeVera Jun 8 #31
That is absolutely NOT what Platner said !!! Jack Valentino Jun 8 #36
No. You're just a liar. Ziggy Beans Jun 9 #41
You can't say the man lacks political instincts BeyondGeography Jun 8 #26
I don't like name calling but clearly an exception here vapor2 Jun 8 #27
He's not wrong duckworth969 Jun 8 #28
Normally with primary set for June 9, and with all the head winds on a particular................ Lovie777 Jun 8 #29
We can only hope.......... MyOwnPeace Jun 8 #30
He was doing well orangecrush Jun 9 #40
"Ya got that right!--- 'shore got that right" Jack Valentino Jun 8 #33
... orangecrush Jun 9 #38
i would have gone with "traitor" but, no lies detected Takket Jun 8 #35
Well, he did say orangecrush Jun 9 #39
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