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AverageOldGuy

(4,285 posts)
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 06:52 PM 17 hrs ago

Thanks for all your support!!! [View all]

Short version: Ms. Average Old Guy is back home -- to ER Monday about 10:30 AM, back home around 4:00 this afternoon. Severe UTI and pneumonia with no idea where either of the infections came from.

Long version.

Sunday she was her usual (83 yr old) self . . . moving a little slow, giving Trump the finger, talking with our 19-yr-old mildly autistic grandson about his job prospects, pissing and moaning at me for some stupid shit I did.

Monday morning 9:30, in bed, called me, she was choking on vomit, got her airway cleared, stripped off nasty PJ's, headed for bathroom and she had no idea where she was, who she was, who I was . . . . I'm an old EMT, ran rescue for 14 years in rural VA, got vitals, BP 80/40, O2 86%, cyanotic, respirations 36 and rapid, pulse 102, chest sounds crackles, rales, rhonchi . Called 911.

Monday through Tuesday night 4X daily IV antibiotics, still confused, did not recognize me or our son, daughter, DIL, or grandsons. Responded to most questions with blank stare, slept constantly.

Wednesday morning was different story -- "Why am I in hospital??" Was suddenly her usual lovably grouchy self, improved gradually, stil unsteady on her feet, appetite returning, all she wants now is a shower.


ALL THE SUPPORT FROM OUR DU FRIENDS REALLY DID MEAN A LOT -- when any of us finds ourselves in the midst of a crisis, it's not the crisis that beats you down, it's the loneliness. Knowing that folks you never met and never will meet are concerned about you, worried about you, sharing your worry keeps you going. THANK YOU ALL.

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Thanks for all your support!!! [View all] AverageOldGuy 17 hrs ago OP
Yaaaaay! SheltieLover 17 hrs ago #1
❤️ underpants 17 hrs ago #2
💙💙💙 sheshe2 17 hrs ago #3
Good news Lifeafter70 17 hrs ago #4
Happy for both of you malaise 17 hrs ago #5
I'm sorry I missed your earlier post MustLoveBeagles 17 hrs ago #6
Glad she's home and you're both doing better! senseandsensibility 17 hrs ago #7
So happy she's home and on the road back to being her awesome self. a kennedy 17 hrs ago #8
Glad it's ok now. There's no place like home 🙏 surfered 17 hrs ago #9
So glad you were there for her Dear_Prudence 17 hrs ago #10
Oh gosh what a scare! Diamond_Dog 17 hrs ago #11
Wonderful news Grim Chieftain 17 hrs ago #12
Great news oasis 17 hrs ago #13
Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better! electric_blue68 17 hrs ago #14
I love a happy ending - TBF 17 hrs ago #15
Good news canetoad 17 hrs ago #16
I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy, JMCKUSICK 17 hrs ago #17
When grouchy is a relief BaronChocula 17 hrs ago #18
love good news! markie 16 hrs ago #19
Great to hear IbogaProject 16 hrs ago #20
So glad for both of you that she is home and healing. 3catwoman3 16 hrs ago #21
"... it's the loneliness." JoseBalow 16 hrs ago #22
Fantastic news! gademocrat7 16 hrs ago #23
Thanks for the update. yellow dahlia 16 hrs ago #24
So happy to hear the good news! MLAA 16 hrs ago #25
Wow! That EMT experience really came in handy! bsiebs 16 hrs ago #26
So glad she is better! She's lucky you were there for her. Scrivener7 15 hrs ago #27
Great news! murielm99 15 hrs ago #28
That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light niyad 15 hrs ago #29
"" AllaN01Bear 15 hrs ago #30
It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again FakeNoose 15 hrs ago #31
She sounds like me! Pucks mom 15 hrs ago #32
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope 14 hrs ago #33
Norovirus is sweeping through our county, in CA Zackzzzz 14 hrs ago #34
Good to hear Mrs. AOG is doing well! Totally Tunsie 14 hrs ago #35
I am so glad. I wonder what the heck happened?? LoisB 13 hrs ago #36
Great news mountain grammy 4 hrs ago #37
Good to hear she's on the mend. mwmisses4289 3 hrs ago #38
Glad to hear the good news! 70sEraVet 1 hr ago #39
Glad to hear she's doing better. FemDemERA 1 hr ago #40
Missed the original post on your wife's condition peggysue2 10 min ago #41
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